First move suggestions?

RomanH101 · 2022-02-20T03:24:03+00:00

Read Way of the Superior Man by David Deida so you understand the importance of leading.
Make strong eye contact with her, when she asks you what you’re looking at, say “nothing” and keep staring… eventually she’ll say “whattt~~~?” or some variation, and at that moment you gently put your hand on the back of her neck and pull her closer for a kiss. Then from there you can escalate to sex. This is the method I’ve used since forever once I have a chick I’m dating alone at my place. Don’t be autistic, obviously pay attention to context, but once she’s relaxed, use this method.

Donn13diablo · 2022-02-20T04:51:41+00:00

Just go for it. If they literally telling you to go for it theres really no wrong way to go about it.

lildudefromXdastreet · 2022-02-20T07:38:55+00:00

A trick I like to do is I’ll offer a piece of my gum at sometime during the date after we’ve eaten or had something to drink(I’m always scared of kissing someone who has bad breath lol), and then later when I want to make my move, I’ll kinda randomly tell them “spit your gum out”when we’re vibing.

They usually ask “why” and then I say “because I want to kiss you”. Has worked for me every time. That being said, if she’s your FWB just initiate. You’re already fucking so what’s the big deal?

reallyred11 · 2022-02-20T04:28:13+00:00

Backflip.

BIGC4075 · 2022-02-20T16:16:18+00:00

Stop being a wimp and do what's natural and go for it.

BurnItDownSR · 2022-02-20T03:54:26+00:00

You not making the first move is more a knock on her than it is on you. That means she doesn't get you excited enough to initiate intimacy.

If she pulls any of that "you're not being manly" BS none of that is true, she's just feeling insecure about being the person who needs to initiate things in order for something to happen.

Trust me, if you're with a girl you really wanna fuck you aren't gonna wait around until she starts anything.

appmanga · 2022-02-20T03:02:28+00:00

A person who's there to do the deed, and you're trying to be clever about the "first move"?

Try this: look straight into their eyes, go up, gently, but forcefully, grab the hair at the back of their head, and still looking right in their eyes say "My God...what I'm going to do to you...", and go from there.

omega_ripper · 2022-02-20T07:50:24+00:00

Best pick up line “are you a minecraft dirt block cuz I’m digging you”

Spinuchi · 2022-02-20T04:22:32+00:00

You just do, if your fwb then you are already fucking and you know you can.. so just seductively stare into her eyes, pull her in to make out.. grab her by her throat or back of the neck and start touching her. From there you just get going into foreplay

Soberskate9696 · 2022-02-20T06:20:59+00:00

Break out the chess board

LilBleeder · 2022-02-20T22:28:48+00:00

When that beautiful moment of “are we gonna cross the bridge” happens when our eyes are locked and you have that “will we won’t we” I say “it only makes sense for us to kiss now, doesn’t it?” It’s never not worked. She usually says something funny back like “well there’s nothing else we CAN do” and ... well there ya go.

Title	First move suggestions?
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Upvotes	26
Comments	19
Date	February 20, 2022 2:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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