[FR] Best text game Ive had so far. Dodging infinite shit tests leads to F-close. Transcript inside

lurking_bishop · 2014-01-23T19:23:24+00:00

That "k" tho

Veelze · 2014-01-23T10:58:38+00:00

I like how in this text conversation goes in phases, each break down pertaining to some technique I've read on this sub-reddit.

Once OP realizes she is free, he goes for the potential date. His mindset is that she has already said yes. Instead of "O you're free? wanna hang out", the more aggressive approach is taken

Just from her response, you can tell she has picked up on the alpha characteristic in the OP. Although its clear that the OP has steady feet, when she says "I never said yes", He responds with "and yet you ask when..." I personally think that was a great save, i probably would have wimped out by then.

"Its kinda cold for froyo"

Do you guys remember this popular post from a few days ago?

Right before this line, she says "i can if i put on clothes, its a 25 minute drive"

As you can see, she doesn't doesn't want to reject or be rejected. Shes dropping that she is available, but doesn't want to look too interested or desperate to hang out. In a way, playing the hard to get role(?).

-When? -I never said yes -I can if i... -It's kinda cold for froyo -Then why would i come? Ten minute break -But i can if you do...

"I guess you could just watch me eat it then. Look if you cant make it, no worries. This is bad last minute planning anyway."

This statement does several things.

-I guess you could just watch me eat it then Gives her a role in the plan even if she doesnt want the froyo -Look, if you cant make it, no worries. This is... Gives her a way out, but also ends the conversation while leaving the ball in her field. The
way the OP finishes the statement, he isn't required to respond to anything the girl says next

"Then why would i come? Ok. Doesnt seem like you wanna

I see this as the one of the shit tests. She wants to see if the OP AFCs or gets desperate. As you can see, OP keeps it cool, the the girl, realizes that she is on the verge of being rejected lets out

-But i can if you do... and THAT is when the OP knows the hook has caught on.

Turning the tables

OP offers a quick explanation for the silence, then eludes to canceling the initial froyo plans. I figure he can only do this because he knows the girl is now quite interested. He then starts making new plans for the future. The line "I did want to see you again" really pulls the girl back in, but the possibility of being rejected again like earlier still lingers(?) so she starts offering to make the plans

-Notice she brings up the spring break first, and having breakfast.

The next portion to me, then becomes really freestyle and becomes a tug of war i guess. Starting with the "cute" statement was when i kinda lost the direction of the conversation, but this is my general analysis of the beginning of the conversation. Of course some of this explanation is just speculation (marked by a question mark), but if want to add on, or contest some points i made, feel free to do so. :)

chipmunk7000 · 2014-01-23T15:07:57+00:00

She keeps saying we shouldnt as she takes her clothes off.

This right here haha. "Oh no, we shouldn't" Gets naked

Scorproyale · 2014-01-23T05:20:28+00:00

She seemed completely into it from the start. And as far as "shit testing" goes, I'm not sure what you're referring to either. Not trying to rain on any parades, you had a few decent replies.

pinkdawg99 · 2014-01-23T06:05:47+00:00

"Come over and we can have breakfast tomorrow also" was a nice touch. I can tell by your challenging nature that you know what you're doing. Were you always that good at texting? If not, how'd you develop that skill?

stillnotperfect · 2014-01-23T06:16:43+00:00

I can tell you guys were going back and forth pretty fast because I myself got confused by your responses for a second there.

But yeah, she wanted this whole thing to happen. Good job closing the deal!

black_headphone · 2014-01-23T07:58:33+00:00

Good work on deciphering those shit tests. I still view them as one massive fucking enigma, but I guess there is always a correct response. And I imagine this would mostly happen with really attractive girls.

Lovesassassin · 2014-01-23T20:24:40+00:00

Conversation was boss. Will fap to later

nmioni · 2014-01-23T16:45:16+00:00

I love the push and pull you had with her (Cat string). You kept it interesting but stayed firm in the end. They know what they want and what you want, they just don't want you to think that this happens all the time. (coming off easy)

leftofzen · 2014-01-23T20:50:47+00:00

infinite shit tests

As far as I can read she is a joking, sarcastic type of person who is definitely looking for someone, someone who is willing to take the lead. I wouldn't call those shit tests, its just the way she talks. Sure, you handled it well but that was by no means an impossible task.

destinys_parent · 2014-01-23T17:08:34+00:00

Are you a yellow jacket ?

throwaway59393 · 2014-01-23T21:52:11+00:00

So to me this whole thing seems really needy and persistent. I know it worked and I don't think it is a fluke, but to OP does it not feel like you're badgering her when you keep telling her you want to meet her, have her come over, have her spend the night, and to keep telling her to come over?

For me after the second or third time she implied she didn't want to leave I would have just been like, "Ok fine, but we'll never get to hang out unless you say yes and come over." Then I would have just stopped texting. But this doesn't work, and it certainly doesn't get me an f-close. So that's why I'm asking.

I'm not hating, because honestly I have no game. Just trying to figure this shit out. Why does it work so well when guys seemingly "badger" girls into going out and doing other things with them?

KirbyAteVash · 2014-01-23T06:31:36+00:00

Whats the good word?

plaaya · 2014-01-23T06:28:28+00:00

Well done.

regrets123 · 2014-01-23T07:11:25+00:00

Well texted!

Indianbro · 2014-01-24T05:18:08+00:00

Wow man, you seriously threw her into the pit with all those push and pulls. Not to mention multiple zing moments:

H: Oh your that kinda guy huh? M: Come find out H: I'm scared to. M: Love can be sometimes

douglas_yancie · 2014-01-24T15:34:22+00:00

Good stuff...I need to read this with a more analytical eye when I have time later...I just had a similar situation with an ex gf before I moved and blew it..

Convictional · 2014-01-24T18:07:51+00:00

That's solid text game right there. I am impressed OP.

douglas_yancie · 2014-01-26T06:03:01+00:00

The analytical approach to pick up like this is intimidating to me...

Mortson · 2014-01-24T08:31:01+00:00

Goodness. I can relate to this conversation so many times it's unreal. Is the trick just to be almost cocky and remain persistent, or am I missing something?

Pibe_de_Oro · 2014-01-23T07:09:04+00:00

You put up with all this for some pussy? You're a stronger or hornier man than I am

Title	[FR] Best text game Ive had so far. Dodging infinite shit tests leads to F-close. Transcript inside
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Upvotes	232
Comments	43
Date	January 23, 2014 4:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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