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[–]kcorkery45 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Am I the only one that thought that he was the chode?
[–]EklyM 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. He is a chode for calling other dudes chodes. Chode is a derogatory word, meaning OP is competing with the other guys. That's not what seddit is about.
God, I can't even read past Chode 3 because this guy sounds very assholish.
[–]onDUBS 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Trying to win every interaction like this guy is the sign of a compete sociopath
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[–]onDUBS 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not hard to close a girl without going to war with everyone you meet. Being alpha didn't necessarily entail being a tool
[–]JaktheAce 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I came here to say this. He says his game is honest and the first thing he said to the girl was that he wanted to meet people, but apparently in his world everybody he meets is a chode, and he seems completely uninterested in actually learning about these people he is meeting.
All he does is compare himself to other people and then say he is "better" than them.
I guess it's still not a bad field report on how to dominate a set and push other people out, but to me it sounds like the guy is an asshole.
[–]TheCuriousDude 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did Chode 5 die or something?
[–]RandianHero 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
So... Let me see if I can understand this correctly... You jump into peoples' personal space uninvited, act completely obnoxious, and then call them chodes when they don't immediately accept you. Your game consists of having no filter or social tact whatsoever and berating others when you don't get your way. You very well might have borderline personality disorder, but I think you might just be a douchebag.
You did no dominating of the sort with the first two guys, but somehow considered it so when all you did was bail out of the conversation by latching onto your friend for safety.
The third guy was just minding his own business, and you pushed him out of the way like a complete dickweed.
There was no fifth guy.
The sixth and seventh guys you didn't do anything about, you just got overly serious with your friend and basically barked an already passive girl into submission. Real show of dominance there.
The only times you did something non-douchey were with the fourth and final guys. But I can't even give you that much credit, because the girl was already focused on you and the guys doing the approaches were completely inept.
After reading all of that, I'm fairly positive I would punch you in the face if I met you.
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[–]RandianHero 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You seem to be confusing the desire to not get into a needless fight with some overly aggressive weirdo as "not being real" -- most people don't give a flying fuck about you. They'd much rather you go away without incident and accept their obvious body language as a sign that you need to fuck off. But instead, you push the issue and claim that anyone who doesn't immediately shout at you to go fuck yourself is somehow a fake. Most people read subtle social cues fairly easily, as they possess a basic level of EQ (emotional intelligence) necessary for functioning in a society. You seem to either not possess any, or have chosen to blatantly ignore it. This isn't alpha; this isn't even game. It's just you being someone everyone wishes would go away.
Furthermore, your lack of control or ability to moderate your emotions isn't a strength. If I was a betting man, I'd wager people hang around you because they tolerate you, not because they find you particularly endearing. Nobody actually wants to be with someone who's so thoroughly up his own ass that he can't consider the world around him without passing judgment upon it for being what it is. That girl? She's probably a shy, introverted person who would rather go with the flow than get in a confrontation with someone who's so obviously unhinged. You sound like a scary person; and I don't mean that in a "I don't want to fuck with you" kind of way -- I mean you sound like the kind of person who has no ability to control himself. On more than one occasion, I've picked up the pieces with a girl who had to deal with someone like you, and brother, I will tell you this much: what they had to say was not pleasant. Fear isn't love. It isn't even attraction.
Just something to think about. I honestly have nothing against you, and I figure you're trying to work on yourself same as most people here. But I will be honest with you: you sound like the kind of person I wouldn't like. I wasn't kidding when I said I'd probably punch you. Not because you're a dick or because you're obnoxious, but because at some point, you might leave me no choice.
[–]deviantkrug 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So... Fucking... Alpha.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
All I can say is wow. It's really crazy how wrong you are about me. I have to wonder where the breakdown in communication was. Actually idk, you are just interpreting what I right in the harshest possible light. Or something, haha. Just crazy.
[–]RandianHero 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hey, man, you wanted real. I'm just calling it as I see it. Like I said, I've got nothing against you personally, and I actually wish you the best. But if you want to know the kind of image you're projecting, that pretty much covers it.
Judging by the other posts in here, I don't think I'm the only one who sees it either.
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[–]RandianHero 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A lot of it was inference on my part. If I was grossly incorrect, I apologize, but you need to understand that impressions are important. And if a guy like me can get all that from what you said, just imagine the risk you're running with people who aren't as laid back.
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[–]RandianHero 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was the joke...
[–]afropat 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what I right
[–]sharpie22 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Look at me. LOOK at me. Stop calling every guy you meet a chode, and stop geeking out on RSD videos - they're making you weird.
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[–]sharpie22 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did you read the note at the beginning of the post, about how this was not every guy I met?
Yes, I was using hyperbole. I know you don't refer to every guy as a "chode." You do it a lot though.
Actually my only response to this is go fuck yourself. Just saying :)
Charming, chode.
[–]rmbarnes 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WAT
[–]GoP-Demon 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This reminds me of 4chan righting.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
righting
[–]GoP-Demon 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol. Thats the worst spelling mistake I've ever seen. Fuck.
[–]JasonUncensored 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Relevant
[–]JasonUncensored 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
So does "chode" just mean "other man", or what?
[–]Ebon_Cobra 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's a derogatory word for "someone who doens't know about seduction"
[–]JasonUncensored 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wish I could quote OP on this, but he mentioned that some of the "chodes" were obviously into the seduction thing.
[–]Ebon_Cobra 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't matter. To edit myself..."someone who doesn't know, or isn't good at seduction". Semantics.
[+][deleted] -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
For me personally it means guys who aren't expressing themselves authentically--usually because they're stifled by social conditioning, possibly because they don't like themselves, just don't know how, etc
This FR did not include all the really cool dudes we interacted with. Haha, I see how reading it you could get the impression that everyone is a chode to me. I don't mean to communicate that at all.
These guys were all chodes in a slightly different way--but the theme is the same.
I could be wrong btw, if you don't think "chode" is appropriate then just consider this a FR about how I AMOG'd a buncha dudes I guess
[–]sharpie22 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure there are guys who conduct themselves in such a way that would make you, in comparison, seem petty, inauthentic, beta, etc. Fortunately, it's not necessary to make such comparisons because we accept that everyone has their own way of behaving based on personality, social conditioning, upbringing, etc.
A lot of readers of this thread obviously thought that you sound overly-judgmental and douchey by referring to guys as chodes. It reeks of a misplaced superiority complex, which most people don't find attractive.
It is not a comparison.
That's like saying that you only consider it competition(which you apparently feel very, very strongly about) when you're the only competitor. When your competition is doing well, you just write it off as not being worth comparison.
[–]sharpie22 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I appreciate your taking the time to write this, and from your other comments it looks like you gained insight into how this post was perceived. As I'm sure you realized by now, you lost most of us with the title of your post, which I originally thought was a joke (I realize you probably were being a bit tongue-in-cheek), but was surprise to see was mostly a serious post.
Whether I am being authentic is not dependent on other guys. It is not a comparison.
My point wasn't that it's based on other guys, but that "authenticity" is more of a spectrum, and that it's weird to size people up and create an imaginary hierarchy based on a perceived level of authenticity.
Consider this: if you asked the "chodes" at the bar if they were being authentic, they would probably say yes because they are not aware of the extent to which they are repressing their desires, etc. However, you see them as not acting authentic, while you are being true to yourself.
Now, to someone more in touch with their core self than you (maybe through life experiences, meditation, etc.), you would probably seem inauthentic (they probably wouldn't judge you negatively, but they might see you as someone caught up in his own shit). They might see you as someone who is more controlled by his ego snd more reactive to external circumstances than himself. Authenticity isn't just someone who acts on whatever impulse they're feeling; it's being in touch with one's core and expressing that (at least, that's what I think of it as).
My point was that there is always someone more "authentic," and you're the chode in their reality (but of course they wouldn't think of you that way because they'd be too cool for that).
tl;dr It's chode thinking to call people chodes
[–]damnyouresickbro 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You may or may not be a psycho. You're fighting all these mini-battles and analyzing them to an extend which is just ridiculous. Did you get picked on when you were younger where now you get satisfaction in putting people down?
[–]Cohan_Fan212 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmfao... irony at it's finest.
[–]HumanSockPuppet 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good FR. Love the detail, and the organization of it all.
Can you talk more about the kino techniques you used?
[–]SwissPUA 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great FR. Gives me quite some ideas how I should deal with chodes. Please write more!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is 'chode' short for 'choda'?
[–]ysef95 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
yeah i think you might have been reading into these interactions a little too much it seems as if you spent the whole night fending off "chodes" when it might have been better in some cases to relax have a better time or mabye bounce to a different spot?
[–]ysef95 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah i read it and i do understand that theres no point highlighting the boring stuff but this FR didnt really explain too much of what happened that was interesting and i did say it only seems like this i mean i wasnt there. My point is that i feel a more constructive FR would have highlighted other aspects of your in field action
[–]uberafc 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
damn man you could have left up the field report... it was still good quality shit and offered plenty of perspective. Not everyone is going to agree with your approach.
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that's a good question...
I mean, besides their looks, my guess is that it's a combination of two things:
My friend is a really fucking cool dude, but he is just getting started with game--so he wasn't thinking about the broader social dynamics of our little group, and honestly probably wouldn't have been able to fend most of the guys off. He had just kinda isolated the girl's friend and was zoned in on that, which is totally fine.
The girls were both very polite to approachers, like I mentioned. They didnt like to blow people out right off the bat.
And also, all of these got started while I was away talkin to other girls/being social. Not right under my nose haha--like no one came up and tried to just eject me straight-up
Also to be fair this really isn't THAT MANY chodes lol. Coulda been a lot worse.
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