I've mostly been in LTRs so I've never developed or even realized I needed to develop any kind of game. I wanted to document my first attempt using these techniques to help myself remember what I did right and what I did wrong, and also to hear any feedback anyone wants to share.
It was also interesting because the girl I was hitting on seemed to be trying to NEG me throughout the night. This is something I haven't seen discussed here.
So over the weekend I made plans to watch football with a friend. I got to the bar first. I had no real intentions of picking up any girls - I was just there to watch the game. I was standing at the bar by myself and noticed HB8 (Blonde who I focused on) and HB7 next to me. It was clear that they weren't there to watch the game because they weren't paying attention and were just talking to each other.
I turned to them and said "Not big sports fans huh?"
The Blonde replied, "No, not really. I guess you could just say we're drinking fans. We're just here to drink."
I said, "Oh, so what you're trying to say is that you're an alcoholic." They both laughed and jokingly agreed. (Opener and Neg?)
We had some small banter about what they did earlier in the day and what team I was going for. She said smiling, "Yeah your teams is definitely going to lose." (a bit of a neg?) My buddy had still not arrived so at that point I turned away from them and started talking to a few guys at the bar going for my team. I talked with them until my friend showed up. (Takeaway, Social Proof, and DHV?)
When my buddy came he and I started talking about the game. Blonde and HB7 were still right next to us. I looked at them out of the corner of my eye and it seemed like they were anticipating me introducing my friend and talking to them again. I held off and continued to talk to my friend. A few minutes later when he glanced over at them I said (making sure they could hear) "Watch out for these girls. They're trouble." He asked why and I explained their "out of control" drinking. I said, "I didn't get your names before." They gave them, I shook their hands, and introduced my friend. (Combination of a Neg and making them qualify themselves?)
At this point we split off. I was talking to Blonde and my friend HB7. While making direct eye contact Blonde said "If your team scores you have to chug your beer....if you even can." This was kind of tough because I didn't want to qualify myself to her but I also didn't want it to seem as If I was in a position of weakness. I just paused for several seconds and said sarcastically, "Yeah that will be very difficult for me." (Agree and Amplify?)
I asked her what she did and she told me she was a teacher. I said "People actually trust you with their kids?" (Neg) We then talked about her home city and I said I have friends there and have always wanted to go there.
We switched girls, my buddy talking to Blonde and me talking to HB7 because it was natural and felt normal.
When I went back to Blonde I had to get drinks from the bar but was holding my drink. I looked at her and said "hold this." She did. Later someone was trying to get their coat but she was in the way. Making solid eye contact I said "Come here" while making the typical index finger gesture. She did and I pointed out she was in someones way. (Following my instruction)
At this point I tried to up the Kino and eye contact while looking for IOI's. She did not move away and consistently held eye contact. I felt confident that there was attraction and some sexual tension.
This is where something went wrong. My friend and I had already planned to watch the second half at another bar. I said to Blonde "We're going to the bar next door in a little bit. You guys should come with us." She said they had just been to that bar before they got to this one. (Not sure if this was true or not). However, about 20 minutes later she said "Maybe if we go to the bar next door your team will start winning." I took this to mean she was definitely interested and would go with us when we left. When were getting ready to leave at halftime I didn't want to invite them again because it would have seemed too needy. They saw us leaving and said they might be over in a few minutes. I was surprised everything seemed to crash and burn so abruptly. Not sure what I did wrong if anything at all. Like I said I just wanted to write this down and learn from it so I can improve for next time.
TL;DR: Very new to r/seduction. Unexpectedly tried my first approach. First attempt seemed to go extremely well until something went wrong just before I was about to close.
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