So tonight I went out to a friends and had a bit of scotch. Left around his place at 10pm and decided to go to a bar near his place to sarge (first time I've ever sarged alone).

Got in and bought myself a beer. Ratio was about 3:1 guys:girls so I was a little worried. There were two girls sitting at a table so I went over and asked if I could sit with them. They said yes and we talked for a bit. They were friendly but didn't seem interested in much so I said I had a good time talking to them and stood up.

Walked outside and decided to start walking home. Then I just thought to myself "Stop being a b**** and get back in there and start sarging."

Stood by the bar a bit and saw a HB7 standing not far from the bar. Walked up and said "You look like you want to dance." HB said she did so I took her hand and we danced and then started grinding. Started kissing her neck and she leaned into it and kind of giggled. HB then turned around and said I should buy her a drink. I said "Ya I will, but first you have to give me a good kiss and buy the first round." So we kissed/made-out for about a minute. Went up to the bar and each got a shot and a vodka & tonic.

She said she wanted to play pool with her friends and grabbed my hand and pulled me to the pool table. She had three friends, a girl and two guys. (Girl=X, Guy 1 = Y, Guy 2 = Z). X seemed to be a jealous over protective friend, and throughout the whole night tried to split us up (wingman would have been nice in this situation). Y seemed like a nice guy although he was an AFC who seemed to have a crush on the HB. Z was really friendly guy so that was refreshing.

During playing pool (HB, friends and I played a few games) I talked and kinoed on the HB. I really used the push-pull strategy. She would be interested so I'd give her attention, she seemed to pull back a bit and I'd just ignore her, then she'd come back to me and repeat. Worked really well.

HB then said it was her birthday. I said I needed to give her a birthday kiss. HB "I don't want a birthday kiss." Me "It's not an option." Leaned in and kissed/made-out a bit more.

After a while we went back onto the dance floor and danced and grinded. Leaned in in between songs and kissed/made-out. By this point she had had a few more drinks and was getting pretty drunk. Luckily X came in and said they were going to have girl only time. At this point I was glad she had such a clingy friend.

By this point it was 1AM so I decided I'd leave and head home.

End of the field report and where I give my short version life story. I was always very introverted. Before discovering seddit I probably would have never been able to do any of the things I did tonight. Even if I did get in the bar and talked to that girl would have probably ended up buying the HB lots of drinks and being overly clingy and not done any k-closing. Since this is getting long I just want to say that this forum has changed my life and I've only lurked and posted a bit for about 3 weeks. Even between that I've done lots of approaches, had two coffee dates, # closes, and now my first k-close (first time kissing a girl I wasn't dating). This has really changed my life, I feel on top of the world, and just want to thank this whole community.