[FR] TofuTofu's Physical Push/Pull as an Opener (short)

GoFlyers · 2011-01-22T04:26:55+00:00

I have the biggest mancrush on you ever.

chebb · 2011-02-18T03:35:06+00:00

Ok tofu, this thread is old so I realise that you're probably the only one who's going to read this, but you were implying to savoy you wouldn't mind people testing your methods, so I decided to try this tonight.

To sum it up, amazing. Fucking amazing. The most consistent (and easy) opener I've ever used.

[Turn around. About 75% of the time she'll be staring at you with a huge grin on her face.]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS. The 1st time I did it, I was in shock, I had no idea what to do so I did it again, worked even better. Turn back around again and this time grab her hand and take to dancefloor, easiest transition ever.

Approaching groups is even better (groups of girls, unsure about mixed sets as the guys might defend, but it might be completely worth it). You do it to one of the girls, and then the leader of the group is like wtf, unsure what to do. You can then really easily win her over by going back to the original with some "you're a cutie, you're like my little sister" cajun style. Another trick I used against the mother hen was the look at her, hold my hand up near her face for a high five, talk to the group and leave my hand up until she high fived it, followed by a hug. Instant "in" with the group, mega social proof, even in a loud dancefloor (this was the most afc club you'll ever go in, yet the girls are still brilliant, after seeing that I was accepted wherever I went).

After the 1st few times doing this, I couldn't help but walk around the club laughing. I was just so happy with how it was going, it was so stupidly easy to open really attractive women (I didn't try it on below hb7.5s, as I was worried they mightn't have the self esteem to find the fun in it).

I also tried it in almost every set I opened normally tonight. It just did a great job in creating a spark, where suddenly the group were all over you. Overall I used this to open about 6 sets, and used it in about twice that of already opened sets. Not once did I get a negative response.

A few thoughts on the theory behind it as I saw it. Physically pushing a girl is something most guys are thought never to do, but if you do it and it's ok with you, then the girl is going to not have a clue what to do and assume it's ok, as you do, and you're awesome. Another thing is to give a good solid push, as a light push could be seen as a misplaced tap, you want to commit to it. What I've taken most from using this technique tonight, is that it's ok to be bold and physical when opening sets and gets you much better responses. Also, if you go physical from the get go, then they are much more open to escalation.

Apart from that, thanks for posting this, I'd really recommend people try this as it opens your eyes in the same way your 1st successful neg did.

2011-01-24T14:42:05+00:00

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diemunkiesdie · 2011-01-22T04:26:10+00:00

Don't girls get pissed off if you shove them and walk away?

unsexyMF · 2011-01-22T04:46:16+00:00

I love how simple this is. I have to try it.

cheddarchexmix · 2011-01-23T00:40:27+00:00

This is awesome stuff man. I'm going to try it, but I think it may be too incongruent with the rest of my approach.

MrEnthusiasm · 2011-01-22T19:53:46+00:00

I love this idea of 'reality destroyer' openers. The RSD one that you mentioned a while ago, where the opener is shouting 'DURRRRRRRRRR' at a set, or some other nonsensical thing almost falls into the same class.

If it goes right, it's like a glitch in the matrix - you broke reality a little bit, and no one can directly talk about it, or even think about it - they all get an immediate mind blank - but now you're in and everyone thinks you're awesome.

am_i_punk_yet · 2011-01-22T07:05:29+00:00

upvote. going to try this out. might finally get the socker punch that's been coming to me

coolNwhite · 2011-01-22T16:05:37+00:00

upvoted.

2011-01-23T08:10:21+00:00

This offends my sensibilities. Waaaaaay too high energy. Does not apply to low energy environments.

Either way, more power to you for doing what you love!

2011-02-05T23:04:08+00:00

I re-open a girl by walking up, grabbing her, caveman-ing her against the wall & kissing her. Then I cast her aside and get a drink at the bar.

I thought this post was kind of cheesey till I read that. You sir, deserve to be knighted.

Title	[FR] TofuTofu's Physical Push/Pull as an Opener (short)
Author	TofuTofu
Upvotes	44
Comments	23
Date	January 22, 2011 3:36 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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