Seddit, yesterday I took part in some weekend debauchery, mostly in the form of staying at a bar all day yesterday. I will post my questions in bold.

Yesterday, on the way down to the bars with some female friends, I started talking to a cute girl on the subway who was also going to the bar party. She showed some IOIs, and some light touching was done. However, I didn't realize but my friends were getting off at a stop before the bar to pick up another friend, so we rushed off without me getting her # (it happened really fast and took me by surprise). Was sort of bummed, but was proud to have approached to begin with.

Finally we get to the bar. I will say now that I did not approach as many women as i would have liked, but the fact that I opened some made me proud of myself (still, I can do a lot better...)

Wound up opening this girl who seemed into me, left to go get a drink, and then came back to talk to me. Again, some light touching and I convince her to get her friend to grab me a drink. We talk for a bit longer and I would have asked for her number, but I realized that I wasn't all that interested / attracted to her after a while, so eventually I ejected. I find myself not having a hard time at all opening women I'm not that attracted to... any pointers on how to feel the same for women I am?

Later on, I hop on a bus to get some food for a little bit. On the bus, there are these two girls and these two very drunk guys who start awkwardly and way too forwardly hitting on them (grabbing their hands etc). These girls are obviously very uncomfortable, and so they start talking to me. The guys don't like this, and start giving me shit, wanting to fight me, etc. I kept my cool and diffused the situation, also deflecting the attention these guys were giving these girls to myself while trying to continue a convo with the girls. What the hell do you do in this situation? One girl was showing some IOIs in me, but I had to worry about these two dumb fucks trying to fight me and trying to keep control of the situation . I feel under other circumstances, I could have gotten one of their numbers, but these guys ruined that.

I meet back up with my friends, and with the DJ's music, we storm the dance floor. Now, there were a lot of attractive women here, but I start getting AA because I do not do well in dance floor game. How do you approach girls on the dance floor? I seem to do much better in conversation-prone environments, which is difficult enough for me to approach.

Some girls start dancing with me, but they're ALL married. Seriously, I don't get it, married women love me for some reason.

I continue to dance with this one friend of mine who is attractive physically, but I find her personality a little bit grating and she is known for sleeping around A LOT (not judging, but just not attractive to me). Regardless, I'm having fun with her and figure that I'm building up social proof (there was a really cute girl I was trying to muster up the courage to go approach), so I continue to escalate with my friend while dancing, figuring it gives me good practice.

Well, my friend starts grinding me, and the next thing I know we're making out in the middle of the dance floor (she initiated), where everyone is looking. Is it possible to approach girls after something like this without coming off as a complete player? I pull back after a while, although she made it very apparent she wanted to escalated things further, but I'm really just not interested in her (although she is pretty attractive).

TL;DR: Please read the bold for my questions and the more important parts.