From Zero to Hero

From Zero to Hero

Here is a no BS fullblown truth about game from someone who has read books, attended hot seats, and gone on bootcamp sessions with Lovesystems and RSD. I went from a complete loser and gone from zero to hero. One thing that no one in the industry will tell you is that looks DO unfortunately matter. Being attractive is paramount TO attraction. However, there are things that even the most seemingly un-attractive people can do to make themselves MORE attractive. If you are overweight, lose the weight and get in shape. The first and most important thing that women look at from a biological perspective is chest to waist ratio. Lose the gut, start hitting the gym and eating healthier. Not only will this make you look better, it will make you feel better and act more confident. Then, dress to impress. Dress to stand out, not to fit in. THIS DOES NOT MEAN PEACOCKING. Peacocking is fucking stupid. Don’t peacock. Do your hair well, practice proper grooming, dress sharp and put effort into putting together a style that fits you. Next, hygiene is soooo important. Go out smelling fresh, bad odor or breath is a sure-fire way for even the dudes with the most game to get blown out.

Finally, here is the next cold hard truth about game. Status and money DO play a role, but it’s more important to be the kind of person who guns for what he wants. If you’re in school, work hard and get good grades. If you are working, be the best at what you do. When your life is going in the general direction as to where you want to be that is when you will be the most confident and fulfilled internally. Game is 99% inner game and 1% what you say. If you don’t feel good about yourself then you won’t get any girls regardless of what lines you use and what not. You’re not going to go from hopeless to good with girls instantaneously.

Finally, DO NOT STOP PROGESSING SOCIALLY. Join a public speaking class, join clubs, talk to strangers, don’t stop making friends. Becoming more confident doesn’t come through simply cold approaching.

I guess what I am trying to say is that over time, game has become less and less about lines and routines and more about overall self improvement. Part of this is the fact that game has become so mainstream. People have seen the pickup artist on mtv, and people are aware of the game. Negging and other tactics cannot work if the reason you are negging is to get into a girls’ pants. You have to put in work to become someone that girls want to date and/or fuck. At one point I was a friendless, obese, virgin, who used to fail all of my classes because I was a crippling alcoholic. Do you honestly think that some lines and routines could have gotten me the kinds of girls I date now? Of course not. There IS NO EASY FIX. A lot of what you were sold about game is simply marketing. You have to offer some value. Even guys in the industry such as Jeffy, Tyler, Jesse from Simple Pickup, and Kong from simple pickup are not traditionally good looking, they dress well, are in good shape, and have things going for them in their lives other than getting girls.

After this continuous ball of self-improvement, practice cold approaching. Talk to everyone, social skills take practice, like any other skill. One thing that helped me was to gain a lot of knowledge about a various amount of subjects and watch A LOT of standup routines. It was through this that I gained a quicker wit and became a better conversationalist. If you constantly are thinking of the next line to pull through you won’t seem natural. You have to practice and hone your personality until you become naturally a good conversationalist.

Next, become a closer. This is going to sound stupid. But a lot of getting girls comes from going for what you want. Go in for the kiss if you see a girl is interested. Ask for that cute girls’ number in class. You’ll get blown out, you’ll get rejected, but after awhile, YOU WON’T CARE. Become better at kissing…being a good kisser can really turn a girl on haha. Sexual chemistry is important to getting a girlfriend so make sex about her pleasure first and your pleasure second. If you really lay the pipe, it is easy to reel in the girls you want.

All in all, game comes down to self improvement and a numbers game. The top guys get rejected THE MAJORITY of times that they approach girls. I’ve gotten blown out 60 cold approaches in a row. But guess what, the 61st time got me laid for the first time.

Finally, not everyone can get good at this and you won’t be able to get every girl. I’m sorry. Looks, status, social skills, money, intelligence, and race play a part. Different girls have different requirements. Some girls won’t date someone who isn’t white, other girls won’t date someone short. But guess what, EVERYONE can get BETTER.

I have no financial reason for posting this other than helping out my fellow man.

Be the most confident version of yourself.

Final comment, in the beginning approach with "Hi, my name is ______."

When you get better...consider taking a hot-seat with RSD...that is the only product in the community that I would recommend.

Also, for the love of God, do not drop 3k on a lovesystems bootcamp. Those guys are so fucking full of shit it still angers me to this day that I paid for that crap.