So I got a text from the girl in this post and she informs me she's going out to the same place I am. Ok. That's cool, I'm not going to change my plans to avoid her. I'm not going to lie though, I was nervous but then decided "fuck it".

Her Friend Flirts Hard

I show up at the club and eventually run into her. We talk, I escalate physically because I make bad life decisions and eventually I eject and leave on positive notes. Eventually I run into her and her kind of drunk friend who is ALL over me. Grabs my hands, puts them on her waist, says "lets go to the dancefloor" and drags me out there.

Oneitis girl runs out on the dance floor, and separates her from me, pretty much trying to block me out. That's fine, I don't really care... so I force my way back in and try to dance with both of them. It's a no go, oneitis is cold towards me and pulls her friend off the dance floor.

All good, I don't chase them, because fuck that noise. I wind up talking to this dude for a while who also had a thing for oneitis girl, and he tells me his experience. It's EVERY FUCKING THING that I've bitched about except he got the LJBF speech, and I told him he's lucky because it allowed him to move on. Big eye opener here, I see a pattern with this girl.

Meet New Girls!

So with oneitis and her friend gone, and sort of giving me a bit of the cold shoulder, I decide that I should probably go meet some new girls. I grab this really cute blonde and dance with her for a good while, although Ididn't get the kiss (I went 90% of the way, she did not go the last 10%). Eventually, after a while of dancing, grinding, all fun stuff, she walks away... and I don't follow. I'm through following girls. So what do I do instead?

Grab the cute girl dancing close by next to me, and dance with her a while. I tried getting close enough to kiss, but she pulled away. All good, too bad for her though I'm a pretty damn good kisser. She tells me that I'm awesome, and gives me her number and last name so we can stalk each other on stalkbook.

Wrapup

I consider it a successful night. I especially stopped giving a fuck when oneitis's friend started flirting with me hard, and then oneitis grew cold towards me. Icing on the cake is when the guy told me his experience with oneitis, and it is exactly the same as mine except I never got a LJBF speech. After them essentially shunning me, I decided to go dance with some other cute girls.