This seems so overwhelmingly obvious but as a man who’s fallen victim to doing this very thing for far too long here’s some quick advice.
Stop watering dead plants. If that girl is not reciprocating, If she’s making excuses to not see you, if she’s straight up unresponsive, STOP RIGHT THERE!
Don’t keep chasing a woman who’s clearly isn’t into you as much as she used to be or maybe wasn’t even interested very much from the start.
The thing is 90% of the time you can sense when she’s pulled away, disinterested, unavailable etc. But you keep going… stop it.
You don’t have to block her, call her out, or burn a bridge.
Simply don’t send any more text, if you have her socials just let her watch you grow as a man, and move on, find more woman. Find ones that are interested it is much less of an uphill battle. Stop making it harder than it needs to be.
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