Do you guys ever feel like you are getting friendzoned frequently like I do.

This is really frustrating. I know that you have to escalate. But I'm unable to do it successfully yet.

Today was another day i went out with a girl that I vibed really well with last time we met. Her friend told me that she broke up with her boyfriend, so she is single now.

And she enjoys my company. So that's the reason she came out with me. But whenever I tried to escalate even a little, I got no kind of response at all, good or bad. She just ignored it outright and gave me a cold shoulder.

Then she was talking about her boyfriend as if she has not broken up with him. Which really doesn't make sense because she is alone most of the time.

And now I'm left wondering if she just doesn't like me or if I'm too bad at escalating things. For reference I'm a pretty short guy, but decent looking. So I'm constantly thinking if she doesn't find me attractive enough. So she is talking about her boyfriend just to keep me at arms length.