Gotta find a new hobby..

Clonic96 · 2014-10-11T12:04:13+00:00

Also, I'm playing paintball every sunday, and boxing once a week too 😉

cheddacheese148 · 2014-10-11T14:49:14+00:00

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. It's a hobby that turns into a lifestyle. Changed me from a 275# nerd into a 200# athlete.

petriomelony · 2014-10-11T13:27:41+00:00

Hello and welcome,

My biggest passions are music and cooking. People often think that passions are ingrained or unchangeable, but I've read that (and agree with) the more you do something, the more passionate you become about it.

In terms of budget, a cheap guitar might cost $100, or you might be able to score one at a pawn shop or something. Teach yourself, instead of taking lessons!

You have to eat anyways, might as well experiment with foods or practice some new recipes. Have 2-3 dishes you love/know how to make really well.

I also want to start writing my own D&D campaigns, and I took up watercolour painting last year for a while. It cost maybe $30 for those art supplies? You could probably find a budget set of colours/brushes for less.

Could also take up programming, which could lead to a good career. One friend of mine is a self-taught coder and he is now working for a tech startup in California.

Good luck!

recyclablebantha · 2014-10-11T14:09:59+00:00

What are some hobbies you guys have?

A good hobby to have is partner dancing. The skills of attentiveness necessary to be good at it, are the same skills you'd be using in seduction as well as many other social interactions.

Invinciblade · 2014-10-11T18:44:55+00:00

Music and rock climbing are mine. Go find a cheap instrument somewhere and look up some how tos online. I assume there are probably no rock climbing gyms anywhere near you, so I can't help there.

CryzX · 2014-10-11T19:22:46+00:00

What's your elo in league?

muddagaki · 2014-10-11T14:22:38+00:00

man i am a few years younger than you and had the same problem all i did was game, but i got into yo-yos recently and it is so much fun id recommend it if you got a lot of time on your hands get away from the computer as much as possible its not the best kinda life

bl1y · 2014-10-11T16:15:48+00:00

I cook, I learned to juggle, I'm building my own custom lego spaceship with about a zillion functional parts, and just for fun I'm giving a talk at a conference on fictional legal systems. Also reading, when I get around to it.

Jarikk · 2014-10-11T17:38:31+00:00

Most of these are pretty expensive but...

guitar - $100 for a cheap acoustic or electric to get you started. look up justinguitar for free lessons online.

martial arts - my BJJ class is $120 a month which includes unlimited classes and crossfit. I also take eskrima which is $50 a month.

surfing/skimboarding - if you live near a beach, skimboards are $100, surfboards are.... a bit more lol.

reading and learning to cook are relatively cost-less.

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/01/06/45-manly-hobbies/

People vary on opinions of this, but I think its worth it to try everything just for a bit rather than just dismiss it. I would have never found out how much I loved martial arts and how much I hated skateboarding and sucked at dancing and fishing if I didn't give them all a chance.

jeanisss · 2014-10-12T04:07:08+00:00

try reading.

Good books.

not like teenage fiction vampire diaries. but actual books like classics such as ender's game, Fahrenheit 452, how to win and influence people, etc etc

ObyrenOfDorne · 2014-10-11T19:14:06+00:00

I feel like every man should know how to play one instrument or some other creative endeavour, speak one extra language, know how to work with his hands, and learn how to play chess well. Get started on one of those.

IHATEPINK · 2014-10-11T12:13:49+00:00

No offence, but what does this have to do with seduction? You haven't mentioned anything about any relationships...

Title	Gotta find a new hobby..
Author	Clonic96
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	October 11, 2014 12:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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