Great guide on how to have interesting and engaging conversations with women

godThisSucks · 2013-01-02T23:53:16+00:00

Another tip I heard is to ask questions and make statements that relate to three things: Emotion, Motivation, Character.

Ex: Girl says that she just moved and is new to the area.

Emotion - Is it stressful to start from scratch in a new area?

Motivation - Why did you decide to move to a completely new location?

Character - It takes a lot of courage to abandon what you are comfortable with.

Easy way to remember: E=MC² (without the squared part).

Mindwraith · 2013-01-02T23:44:19+00:00

As a woman (a classy, educated, attractive woman at that) I just want to say that this is really wonderful advice. The first few lines mention that if a man can't hold a simple, engaging conversation a woman will assume that he is not capable of even the simplest tasks. Dead on.

It's usually extremely obvious when a guy is faking interest in a conversation and it immediately hurts my feelings. I like that this guide encourages genuine interest. It's way more effective and interesting for both parties, even if the conversation is being used strictly as a prelude to sex. Human nature demands a ritual of some form take place prior to coitus and the more impressive that ritual is the faster a woman will be stepping out of her panties. It's the law of the jungle. The sexy, sexy jungle.

Mr-Metaphor · 2013-01-02T21:22:17+00:00

I feel like I stick to most points here, but sometimes you get a cold response, or a very short one.

What do you do in those cases? Switch from talking to doing something else? or just bail that person/set?

Trustmeimacop · 2013-01-03T01:33:07+00:00

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killroy901 · 2013-01-03T03:26:16+00:00

Has anyone else tried this nouning technique? It seems to have a lot of potential.

TheoColt · 2013-01-03T19:31:27+00:00

I think the Parroting Technique is worth mention in this.

For those who don't know, Parroting is when you loosley repeat what someone has just said to you, for them to expand on it.

Example: Girl "School has been really stressful lately." Guy "Schools been stressful? Girl "Yeah, because blah blah blah."

It works really well, just don't over do it. It becomes obviously after awhile and is annoying. Just like a real parrot.

2013-01-03T09:02:19+00:00

Man, this advice is great. Even with just friends. Being able to hold a good conversation and get invested in someone else is a big step in developing a stronger relationship.

Eviscerate487 · 2013-01-03T07:55:42+00:00

This post is from Saucehead's "The New Formula For Picking Up Chicks." I saw one person say they read something very similar to OP's post before, and this is where it was from. I didn't see Civilian give credit to where it was due.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=124193391 Here you can read the rest of the series - the whole thing is pretty good. You can find OP's post at post #21 between lesson 12 & 13. As you can see, OP's post is from August 2010, but the post I linked is from May 2010. In reality, Saucehead made his posts years before 2010. This is just a compilation of his posts someone else made because the original posts were deleted.

failbait125 · 2013-01-02T23:52:40+00:00

How do people not know this shit, it is all common sense

Michael_Cassio · 2013-01-03T02:00:24+00:00

A lot of this is already known. It seems like the pick up community is just a recycling center. Maybe that's just Seddit.

Title	Great guide on how to have interesting and engaging conversations with women
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Date	January 2, 2013 3:20 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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