Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?

Cantrillion · 2024-03-05T14:13:41+00:00

You're already running late. Touch to emphasize points if you're on dinner dates, but cut that out. Do something that involves activity, proximity and preferably adrenaline on the next one.

bert_cj · 2024-03-05T15:25:32+00:00

Don’t do dinner dates.

Anything, mini golf, bowling, art museum, out for drinks/dancing, festivals, concerts etc

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-03-05T15:45:09+00:00

You need to subtly physically escalate esp with light hand holding. Physical touch with the hands is powerful

consiliac · 2024-03-05T16:06:25+00:00

Touch her and invite her home. If she says no, laugh it off, get a kiss if she's cool with it, and meet her again. It's not that complicated. Keep it simple. You can do player tricks to try to get her to put out, if that's all you want. But you can also be a decent guy and just be straightforward and fuck to your heart's content, since a lot of women these days are also willing to fuck like animals.

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-05T14:41:27+00:00

This is basically how I do it, but whatever you do, I'd do it on the next date.

Usually hug second date considering we'd have been texting in between dates and considerably closer. Have dinner / few drinks / chat. Suggest a walk.

Now, if she has accepted the second date, she definitely finds you attractive and reasonably interesting. If she accepts the walk instead of taking off, this is basically plain English for 'I'm comfortable with you'.

While on the walk, I'll take her hand. If she accepts that comfortably, I tell her that I like her, and what I like about her, and that I'd like to continue seeing her. I'll ask if she feels the same.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-03-05T14:49:40+00:00

Stop with the dinner dates, those are feminine and unless you're sitting next to each other it is hard to physically escalate.

You're on a date with a woman who presumably considers you to be physically attractive. Unless you have it on good authority that she is not ran through or a more traditional woman (especially if she is from a country with traditional values) you can always kiss them on the first date. When implementing kino, start out with very small touches that are harmless that suggest that you are just a normally touchy guy, after continuing the seductive process, you can become more intimate by either jumping straight into hand holding (or by playing games with your hands first) then, after being more seductive, you look into her eyes, at her lips for a few seconds, and then back into her eyes to gauge her readiness to be kissed. If she indicates that she is not ready, continue the seductive process and build more attraction. After kissing her once, kissing her again throughout the date is no big deal, and you can invite her back to your place and most likely not be denied.

This article goes into more detail about how to physically escalate with women on dates: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-physically-escalate-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

aitaix · 2024-03-05T17:18:48+00:00

Don't sit across from her, sit next to her.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-03-05T17:20:02+00:00

3erd date no escalation, yeap chances are she already sees you like a cool friend and stuff, when women already form an opinion of who you are, it's hard to get from there, just move on, you escalate by touching her, starting with shoulders, arms, playing games with her hands, reading the lines on her hands, and so on touch her jewelry, walk with arms crosses, then hands, welll all that might lead to a kiss, but you have to be alert to her signs, her body language, you also can invite her to many venues, do lots of activities, keep them prepare with anticipation so you know where to go, that is super attractive, leading and knowing what to do; never ask her, hey so what do you want to do now lol ?, you can play pool, bowling, I always recommend first date a coffee, if things are going great, maybe go for drinks, well many other games and shit but I can't remember at the moment but this is helpful to remember that stuff haha, I'm also in the self-improvement process in this area.

whirleymon · 2024-03-06T03:10:29+00:00

Sex is a good non-platonic 3rd date activity. Try that.

Title	Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?
Author	thisisanewstartbud
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Date	March 5, 2024 1:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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