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Hinge vs Tinder

Due_Transition_8363 · 2024-08-06T12:54:23+00:00

Im looking for short term relationships and been trying Hinge for that but it hasnt been working out well. Girls there seem to be more looking for LTR there. I...

Due_Transition_8363

August 6, 2024

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Title	Hinge vs Tinder
Author	Due_Transition_8363
Upvotes	47
Comments	42
Date	August 6, 2024 12:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1elh0o2/hinge_vs_tinder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/hinge-vs-tinder.1526498 https://theredarchive.com/post/1526498

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How do you close with sex on first date everytime.

I just got out of 5 year relationship like 10 days ago.

Went on 3 dates (one girl was super ugly wouldn’t have banged)… so let’s say 2.

1 girl was super hot but clearly going to bathroom to use cocaine (lmfao). And I called her out and she wouldn’t admit it. She was a nutcase.

Other woman was age 42 single mom. Had great personality looked okay.

Both girls I made out with publicly, one I made out in her car and grabbed boob (the 42 year old mom).

… me and 42 year old are supposed to do a “movie night” at her place on Saturday.

Neither would come home with me.

The sexy cocaine addict wouldn’t stop with shit tests, and for absolutely no reason told me a story of “my ex pointed a pistol at my face and pulled the trigger but the bullet didn’t go off.”

I was willing to risk an insane person coming to my house and an ex husband killing me, but she stilll wouldn’t come home.

I am fit/ripped Chad looking guy age 32.

[–]RobustMastiff 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk, I’m 26, pretty overweight. I just put a lot of effort into having good conversation and being charming. I don’t go on hinge dates where me and the girl I matched with don’t seemingly have enough in common to have energy. I ask for phone number within first five messages, text to set up date within 3. I got out of a 4 year relationship about six months ago it took me a while to get back into the swing of things properly. I’m sorry you’re going through that heartbreak right now.

I don’t kiss girls in bars and don’t make out in public. Classy girls don’t kiss in bars, and I’ve had girls lean in to kiss me in bars before and I turn my head and say that to them. If you don’t give it up that easily, it makes her more curious about you and makes her want you more. Girls aren’t used to being rejected like that, and you can do it in a way that’s playful and not insulting to her, that shows her you actually respect her more. That can ironically fast forward her to being ready to get into bed with you. My first dates usually last four to six hours. It’s a lot of social effort and lots of guys on here will tell you that it’s not worth having a first date that long, but I’ve only not gotten laid on one first date since becoming single.

I’m a bartender so that gives me a lot of clout. Both because that means I’m used to chatting people up for hours on end and am a good conversationalist, and also because I know half the town (and it’s a known fact anyways that bartenders have a way easier time getting laid than most guys). First date, I always get drinks with the girl at the same upscale cocktail bar, always pay the full tab, talk to her there for a few hours, then take her to the bar I work at for the last drink (also an upscale cocktail bar). This gives me a ton of clout because I know all the people at the first bar, say hey to a ton of people on the street during the walk to my bar, and obviously know all the bartenders and customers at the bar I work at, and it’s a pretty nice bar so that impresses her too. Always break the touch barrier at the first bar, get her close enough to smell my cologne. They always say I smell good.

I’m not physically fit at all and probably like a 6 objectively so I rely entirely on social clout and my personality and it works. This is just my method, it’s always a good idea to be a regular at at least one nice bar because that will be your home base for social outings. Idk if any of that’s useful but my breakup was in December and my body count has gone up by 14 since then

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