Girl flaked after second date

thetapebaper1789 · 2022-02-03T14:00:15+00:00

If she agreed to come to your place after some drinks then I think she was expecting more than a kiss. Ask her if she wants to come over and watch a movie or something and this time seal the deal. If she flakes again then leave her be.

WiiWynn · 2022-02-03T16:01:52+00:00

The Brad Pitt rule. If you were Brad Pitt, how would she act? If she really had to do something, she’d reschedule. If she made it to your place, she would have done the deed if she was really into you.

Cut your losses, move on. The longer you dwell on it the more it’ll erode your confidence which will further erode your success with future women.

Just keep working on yourself and it’ll just get easier and easier as your attractiveness grows.

Chance_Base_854 · 2022-02-03T15:14:45+00:00

You "men" are always the first to say "just leave" even if nothing says there's even anything wrong. She agreed to another date didn't she? But because she got busy and had to reschedule, that means the relationship is over? Are you even reading what you're typing? Have the smallest bit of patience, PLEASE!!! like holy fuck!

BadaBingBadaBoomWaa · 2022-02-03T15:32:40+00:00

Did I stumble into a secret incel chat? I think if she was the kind of girl to want to go farther with you and hold that against you she would have been up front about it. I think if she says she’s busy she probably is and if she keeps saying she’s busy it’s up to you on weather or not you want to keep trying.

The advice in the comments about how to make a move like idk just don’t listen to that stuff. If I were her I don’t think I’d like my guy taking advice on how to fuck from Reddit. Just let things happen naturally you should be able to tell if she’s into you and if you can’t that’s ok relationships are messy. You can start by kissing her or putting your hand on her subtly if the mood calls for it. Just start slow and do what feels right. It’s ok to be nervous don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. If you aren’t smooth and suave don’t sweat it.

Hope it goes well for you and that you respect her decisions.

TheTruth221 · 2022-02-03T13:28:42+00:00

move on

ezio_af · 2022-02-03T14:03:12+00:00

Wait for atleast a week, then ask her again or hang out with hotter girls, post it as your story and she will chase you if she is interested..

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-02-03T17:18:02+00:00

Did you pay for the dates?

incognito3107 · 2022-02-03T14:55:42+00:00

Probably, you snoozed and her emotions dropped.

It's just you made an assumption that you got to some checkpoint, and you can just safely go forward whenever you wish, which is not the case in emotional women world, when they can change their mind within seconds. Tension is the key.

Yunngjedi · 2022-02-03T15:40:23+00:00

No bro your super good on this one. She probably really does have to work late. If she kissed you then agreed for another date, sounds like she’s interested. Don’t push so hard when it comes to escalating after a kiss. Her body language will tell you if she wants more or not.

almighty_nsa · 2022-02-03T21:50:10+00:00

Just ask her again and escalate.

howdatingworks · 2022-02-04T03:30:50+00:00

Definitely should have gone for it man – she was on your couch making out with you, for crying out loud! You could do well to plan better dates and to make your move when the moment is right. Here's the process for you:

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/first-date-ideas (dates that lead to sex)

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-kiss-a-girl (going for the kiss)

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-bring-a-date-home (escalating physically)

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-be-good-in-bed – making her scream your name ;)

Sup3rHD · 2022-02-04T09:09:06+00:00

She comes to your place to fuck my friend. You didnt do it and she is gone now. Next time dont be scared

Title	Girl flaked after second date
Author	Due_Transition_8363
Upvotes	4
Comments	30
Date	February 3, 2022 1:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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