His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield)

nullsci · 2020-02-20T02:33:17+00:00

I don't know why, but just seeing this gives me 2nd hand cringe despite me doing this before. Regardless of me being stupid, this is a VERY good video. Most guys get exposed to PUA-people who can just walk up to anyone and get their number or something, but this is based off of hours of practice; learning what works, why it works, when to say or do something, and who to do it to. Every beginner has to realize that the first steps are always the hardest, but after a while it becomes easier -- and these types of interactions go from rough to smooth.

Aghayden · 2020-02-20T01:51:59+00:00

In this video, you get to see raw footage of a man's first ever attempt at approaching women.

This video is important because one of the biggest things that holds guys back is unrealistic expectations.

When you watch infield of coaches or of famous YouTube pranksers, you're watching footage of someone who's spent years building a skillset. They're confident and smooth because they've approached thousands of women.

It can seem impossible that you would be able to do what they're doing. And in truth, you won't be as smooth or charming as they are when you're new to approaching. But that's okay.

And that's why I'm showing you footage of someone's first ever attempt at approaching women: to give you more realistic expectations of what game looks like for the average guy.

The guy in the footage is nervous, he makes a number of mistakes, BUT he's still able to get positive reactions from girls and he gets some numbers (many of which will flake, but not all).

Chances are, that's what game will look like for you if you're new to this. You won't know exactly what to say, you'll probably speak to fast or in a robotic tonality, etc.

That's okay, sometimes that will be good enough. And if you notice your mistakes and learn from them, you will rapidly improve.

You can find more of my content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4kTcVi-b_9qQnMCRG9WggA

makis2404 · 2020-02-20T05:37:57+00:00

Even if he can't get laid, he absolutelly benefits his health after walking so many km. But how many of us can do it for years?

SmoothPrimal · 2020-02-20T06:26:56+00:00

It’s best to not walk with girls. It’s very stalky. Like earlier I approached this blonde russian on campus coming out of a building. I approached her where she can see me, my face and my hands. Either head on or at a slight angle, but she knows she will have to stop to talk to me but she can keep going if she doesn’t want to talk.

Walking with them often surprises them since you will end up coming from the back or to the side.

jbustos11 · 2020-02-20T07:11:48+00:00

what my mans doing with that tongue tho lmaoo

actionassist · 2020-02-20T13:35:57+00:00

Notice his first approach: his shoulders were forward/ inward. One thing I always keep a mental note of when approaching women or people in general (business is a game of seduction in itself) is to always keep my shoulders back. It forces myself to feel confident/ appear confident. I found it also changes my voice in a positive way.

BlvckJayx · 2020-02-20T03:32:11+00:00

Not everyone knows how to just be charming

jjbinks4 · 2020-02-20T03:23:08+00:00

Great post!

Bulkyboiii · 2020-02-20T07:02:32+00:00

Very insightful to see a newbie approach. Thanks for posting!

DirtyLickins · 2020-02-20T11:18:41+00:00

Is the guy in the video you?

usedtimecapsule · 2020-02-21T02:52:54+00:00

Must’ve been awkward for the girl with the camera right there

The girl he approached who was taking the Japanese class may have rejected him but she seemed flattered

Facelotion · 2020-02-21T03:19:38+00:00

This guy gets a lot of props from me. Y'all bashing him... let's see the video of you doing better during daygame.

2020-02-21T17:31:01+00:00

...hopefully he'll learn sooner rather than later that the juice ain't worth the squeeze...

Aghayden · 2020-02-21T22:46:51+00:00

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nullsci · 2020-02-20T06:00:24+00:00

I'm not going up to a random girl and telling her 'She's pretty,' if deep inside I do not mean it. I'm not going to lie to a girl about watching the netflix series 'You' if I've NEVER heard or come across it.

The best interactions will ALWAYS be the situational ones when time and fate put you together. Only will it feel so natural and pure. NOT only would you have to stutter across sentences or find the right words to say BUT your mouth will turn into a whole dictionary if there's any chemistry AT ALL.

Save those calories, STOP forcing your way into their path. Laughter does not guarantee interest, neither does a number. THE cutest relationships are the ones you start as friends.

Also, it's miserable and cold in the UK. How do you expect me to do so well?

Title	His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield)
Author	Aghayden
Upvotes	151
Comments	55
Date	February 20, 2020 1:51 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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