Doing. Everybody gotta do more doing. Doing = learning, learning = experience. I'm saying this at myself more than anyone else.

This post is going to be a bit all over the place but stay with me. So much has happened as late I'm still trying to keep track.

A few things you need to know about me:

  • Long term hard case. Was unemployed for years, had bad style and generally pathetic with girls.

  • Currently living in Japan teaching English. Been doing that for over a year. Partly on Mark Manson's advice.

  • Right now, on holiday in Taiwan. Fuck me it's been eye opening.

Guess these are field reports but I ain't changing the title. All dates are over a five day period.

Date 1: Chinese girl living in my city. She opened me and I could tell she wanted to fuck me. So, because I liked her, I gave her a chance.

Two dates were playing music in a group lesson. Another date was drinks after a lesson. And the last date I got stood up. More on that later.

Date two: In a city on my to Taiwan. There's a bar I love there. Met a Japanese girl on tinder ages ago and said that if I'm ever in town I'd hit her up.

We had a great night. Touching and kissing early. Various locations and conversation topics. Find out that she hasn't had sex in two years. When we get to Kareoke together and I escalate she stops me. Says that I have to be her boyfriend to continue. I ain't doing that so I kissed her, finished karaoke and sleeped in a manga cafe.

Okay, so two shitty dates. Blue as fuck balls. Now here's where the party starts.

Get into Taipei and after a sleepy start open up tinder and see who's on. Open the next morning and start swiping. I shit you not 4/5 girls that I liked was a match.

Now I'm just an average white dude. Yes I have my own unique style, found the haircut for me and have tinder and dating experience. But fuck, this was a sexual dream.

A big thing is that I can experience life as a high value male. In this situation, I'm high value. When I go home, I know how to act high value.

For one, boring girls don't last long. Be interesting or be ignored. Take care in your appearance. Engage with me. Be playful and creative.

I say this shit not to be rude but as a filter. I've got a limited amount of time to spend with girls. I want to maximize my time with the right girls.

I'm honest because it saves time. Want a long term relationship? I don't and I'll tell you that. You smoke? I don't like that shit. These, and others, are my boundaries.

Date 3: Okay tangent aside. I'm tindering with a ton of girls. Overtime they drop through my filter until I have a few options.

This girl was the best option. Talking a lot, interesting conversations and had a cool style. Asked her on a date but said that since I'm new to the city, she would have to help with a location.

We work our a meeting time and she comes to my hostel on her scooter. Now not sure how many of you have seen Taiwanese traffic but that shit is crazy.

So I'm zooming through the city streets on the back. Holding on for dear life and thinking, "Fuck yeah this is life" and "thank you Mark Manson and the rest of the community for getting me off my computer and into the world".

Didn't die, went to a few places, was super chill though didn't lead that much, didn't matter fucked her anyway.

After all the shit dates I've been on, blue balls from Japan and conbini condom cock blocks (my size doesn't exist), I could just meet a girl, have an awesome conversation and fuck her brains out.

So, I check tinder the morning, 12 hours later I have 15 messages and more matches I haven't opened yet. At this stage I've stopped swiping because it's hard to keep up.

Date 4: Sexy as fuck Taiwanese girl has been messaging all day. She's cute and another date fell through so I take her out. Mistake one was not realizing that she was a smoker. One strike. Mistake two was turning up 15 mins late. Ssid that she was making a poor first impression. Strike 3 was being slightly boring. Sure she was hit but there was no depth. Fucking her would mean nothing.

So we had one drink, said I had a great time and was on my way. She said that we should meet again, I said maybe.

Was I too harsh? Maybe but I've got other girls in my phone, one the street and in the club that are better for me. I admit that it has gone to my head a little but if I acted low value I would have no time.

I highly recommend anyone that has never left their country to do so. The further the better.

This is all the shut that's happened to me over the last few days. I've learnt so much. When I get back home I'm going to friend zone the Chinese girl. The old me would make reasons that she's not that bad, the new me knows how easily she's replaced.

TLDR: Wish I could give one but too much has happened.