How do a bring up sex?

RedStrike · 2013-11-01T19:04:19+00:00

Depending on the situation, you might not have to. Escalation. See if you can go from kissing, to massaging, to putting your hands in random places, to finally bam.

But what you really need to remember while doing escalation is if the girl is not cool with how far you are pushing, pull back, be a gentlemen, and don't do anything she isn't cool with.

NaviLight · 2013-11-01T21:08:26+00:00

You don't have to "bring up" sex when it's already part of your reality. Sex is all around you, it's a way of life. Sex is in the subtext of everything she says. The action of sex is a natural result of the experience you call reality or life. You don't have to try to get sex, be in the moment, do whatever little cute techniques you've learned, but be the awesome guy you are with the intention of bringing value to every interaction and you won't have to try to have sex. Sex will be a natural evolution of the type of interaction you create.

drifting_ · 2013-11-01T19:22:09+00:00

To me, virginity is what you make of it. When I was turd in high school I wanted to save it for someone amazing and special and was shocked when a friend lost it to his short term girl friend and didn't make a big deal about it as I had.

I got really drunk a few months later and lost it to a girl I hardly knew. I didn't regret it and I realised after it's only what you make of it. If you haven't had sex before it's no big deal at all, don't let the thought of it hold you back. Amongst other things you are a sexual being and so is everyone else. Embrace it.

bl1y · 2013-11-01T19:14:40+00:00

Escalation and subtext/context. "Hey, want to come over and watch a movie," sends a rather clear message.

donit · 2013-11-02T07:21:33+00:00

It's not a subject that you need to "bring up". You either do it or you don't. Sex is like Ballroom dancing, the man leads each step and the woman follows. If he does nothing, then nothing is exactly what happens: the girl just waits.

LiberalPenguin · 2013-11-01T22:33:25+00:00

well...you are kinoing? So I assume you have got her somewhere alone, and "safe"?

you escalate the kino to breasts and then...well you know...teehee...

then, if she is enjoying herself, you open her the button on her pants and put your hand down there...rub...escalte etc...wtf. Spoonfeeding here I guess... lol

aint_nothin_wrong · 2013-11-02T06:46:12+00:00

If you've physically gotten her to the point where she is ready for sex, a line such as, "I have a condom" will suffice and I've successfully used it many times in the past. Just remember that they need a good amount of foreplay.

rmbarnes · 2013-11-01T20:28:04+00:00

Sex is something you do rather than something you talk about.

puha · 2013-11-02T10:30:16+00:00

"So.. how do you like your eggs?", and things like that have been successful for me a few times, if the whole sex thing didn't come up by itself.

I_AM_NeilStrauss · 2013-11-02T00:09:29+00:00

You should wait for someone special.

Title	How do a bring up sex?
Author	AllHailTheCATS
Upvotes	15
Comments	18
Date	November 1, 2013 6:57 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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