How do you # close?

TofuTofu · 2011-09-07T07:49:24+00:00

"Hey, gimme your number. Let's hang out sometime."

Don't overthink it :P

heckz · 2011-09-07T14:36:40+00:00

I like to sit on the steps outside my college's main building, when a girl walks by that i think is cute i'll say "I like your outfit." and flash my boyish smile. She'll smile at me say "thanks, i like yours." or something to that effect, and i reply with "enough to give me your number?" Ta-da. Rinse and repeat. It's not what you say, but how you say it.

Dorman010 · 2011-09-07T09:13:48+00:00

You: "Hey, I'm having a really great time talking to you. We should do this again some time."

HB: "Yeah!"

You: "How can I contact you?"

HB: "I can give you my number, it's blah blah blah"

It's that easy.

Enf0rc3 · 2011-09-07T07:45:57+00:00

"Hey from the other day i didn't get your number, what is it?" and go on from there?

Marcob10 · 2011-09-07T14:25:34+00:00

This shouldn't even be a question. Every possible way to ask a number is good, I have yet to ask for a number and get any hesitation.

If you've been talking a little and she looks interested, just ask, there's no reason for her to refuse. And if she does refuse or hesitate, is it worth trying to charm her anyway? People make up their mind about someone in the first minute after they met.

PetiePal · 2011-09-07T14:50:54+00:00

It's not so much HOW you ask for the number but rather that you DO it. If she's receptive you should have no qualms asking.

DigitalisFX · 2011-09-07T15:23:38+00:00

You peak her interest in something, then create a future meeting for it.

For instance: You: "Yea, im going to that new coffee shop..." her: "Oh, i've been wanting to check it out" You: Later on "Hey listen, i gotta run but we should meet up at that coffee shop for..."

Then proceed to what everyone else said, which is:

You: "How can i keep in contact with you" It's harmless

HarmReductionSauce · 2011-09-07T16:21:17+00:00

Hand her your phone with the dial pad open. If she asks just say "you know what to do." It has literally never failed.

Naga14 · 2011-09-07T12:29:15+00:00

I pretty much always use "You are a fun person. Tell me your mail." in Japanese. Simple.

PetiePal · 2011-09-07T14:59:40+00:00

I chatted with two women at a Catholic group last night. One I had already kinda been communicating with through a dating site and she happened to be part of the group. The other I had just met. Some short convo and towards the close I mentioned that it would be cool to hang out sometime we had a lot in common. I did the "What's the best way to get a hold of you?"

I agree asking outright for the number isn't always the best route, sometimes you can try other methods whatever seems to work for you.

heckz · 2011-09-08T02:30:53+00:00

Type her name in and hand over your phone mid conversation.

saywhatttttt · 2011-09-07T08:28:43+00:00

WRONG WRONG WRONG, ENJOY YOUR FLAKEY NUMBERS BROS.

watch this hour long video

this is the notes / summary of what the PUA talks about (thanks to redditor netrosis

heres the relevant part;

How to avoid flaky numbers 101: don't ask for the number. Engineer it so she offers it to you. Because you can ask for a number and she wants to avoid being awkward in front of you, she'll just give it to you and flake out later. Build up to an event, and if she displays avid interest, ask "What's the best way to get a hold of you". If she's not comfortable, or not attracted she'll blow out and maybe give an email instead, then you know to step back and continue building comfort or attraction, etc.

BenJ_ABCs · 2011-09-07T22:39:43+00:00

My favorite:

Me: Do you have a cell phone? Her: Yeah Me: Let me see it. Put in number, call myself, save contact. "Now you've got to find what I put it as." Sometimes I go "Hot Ben" or "Asian Stud" or "Ben Booty Call"

Title	How do you # close?
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Date	September 7, 2011 6:31 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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