How do you keep yourself motivated?

aeturnus95 · 2025-09-26T15:23:21+00:00

I don’t try to stay motivated. I want to be with women because I like them. Not based on outcome. I don’t pursue results. Because I am already happy and content with my life, career, daily choices and whatnot. Like, the satisfaction of working on yourself and evolving is often greater than from what I get from women. I have stopped relying on women outcomes as a basis for my quality of life. Now I just love coasting with them - and that’s it. If anything happens: it happens.

But I know what you are saying. We are emotional creatures and rejection never stops hurting. It just hurts less.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-09-26T15:32:51+00:00

Go for the "easy money" chicks to remind yourself you still got it. Builds your confidence up and gets you reps in terms of both game and sex to get you ready for the ones you would actually consider seriously dating.

Strong-Hovercraft163 · 2025-09-26T15:37:23+00:00

just touch grass bro

Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-09-26T16:12:41+00:00

How do i keep myself motivated?

Because I don’t want to be a loser that can’t attract women the way I want to.

It’s not a prize thing or an ego thing being able to get women.

What i get from it is the ability to handle rejection, better my inner game, increase my social confidence, respect myself and just become a man I am proud of.

Forget the woman, it’s not about her. It’s about me winning. The side effect is me being able to attract women

Rhino3750ss · 2025-09-26T16:12:58+00:00

I gave up on motivation.

Self motivation is irrelevant, it requires you to feel certain types of ways.

Determination regardless of how you feel is everything.

Illustrious_Size610 · 2025-09-26T16:36:31+00:00

By actually learning how to seduce women? Once you actually learn the fundamentals of seduction and attraction.

Women will ever tell you again something like “let’s just be friends”.

If you still get told that thing it means you really have no clue how attraction or seduction works, and that’s your fault for not researching something that has already been discovered since at least the 90s and when you are literally posting in a sub called “seduction” where all the material is already available by going through the wiki in this subs menu.

2025-09-27T07:34:44+00:00

You don't. But still you keep going. Period

National_Echidna1834 · 2025-09-28T03:15:53+00:00

You just have to be disciplined about achieving whatever goals you have. Analyze and reflect on what you could have done better/different. Realize that full blown relationships really take a special kind of connection and to maintain that connection is difficult. Shit is difficult. Just depends on how bad you want whatever you want. It’s either pain now or pain later when you’re older and still fuck up with girls. If you need a break then take one. But I wouldn’t recommend giving up forever.

Title	How do you keep yourself motivated?
Author	Healthy-Two217
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	September 26, 2025 3:08 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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