In recent times, I met a very attractive woman on tinder. We dated for 2 months and had a great time. When I brought up the conversation about seriously dating, she gave the usual bs (I've done it too), not ready to commit, I dont know what I want, etc.

Upon reflection, I realized I may have put her on a bit of a pedestal. How do you balance showing firm interest in her without becoming a pandering fool? This is particularly difficult for me because I'm very laid back and generally open minded.