So I've met quite a bit of lovely ladies in my seductionary travels. I truly love conversing with females and have had many great conversations with really great girls. Anyway, whenever I'm hitting it off with a girl I'm interested in - let's say I meet a girl at the PT office, at work, in class, at the gym, or basically any place I frequent, I don't want to take that aggressive go-for-the-number (or date) approach. In some situations like this, when you know you'll see the girl again, I'd rather ease my approach on her so in case I don't come off too aggressive and therefore creepy or something and have future awkwardness. So lots of times, it's hard to tell if a girl is just a flirt and very friendly, or if she actually wants you to make a move. My question is, how do you guys generally go about checking into the BF status of a girl? Do you guys ask blatantly (I never do, seems awkward)? Do you probe with some kind of subtle question?