How do you strike the right balance between being wholesome and sexual over text?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-20T01:01:01+00:00

Talk in person, skip the phone.

BetaCuckSimp · 2022-01-20T02:59:00+00:00

Text for logistics. Flirt in person

mightymite88 · 2022-01-20T07:39:45+00:00

It's not about balance

It's about selling yourself

And reading your audience

I'm 100% wholesome. That's just me. And for me it works. But you can be 100% sexual and that can also work. You just need to find your best audience.

But if they clearly initiate something sexy, or wholesome, then read the room and go with it. To the best of your ability

ShampooMonK · 2022-01-20T01:52:30+00:00

Fair enough, but pretty often they’ll lose interest and ghost me when I’m talking to them about travelling or TV shows or something. Especially over text, which is naturally a boring medium.

Traveling is a good topic to bring up... It's just boring as fuck to talk about through text. Because texting is just so emotionless and it's hard sometimes to grasp the context.

Deep dive with questions like, "if you could wake up right now on vacation, and be anywhere else in the world, where would it be?"

As for sexual texting?DO NOT SEXT ANYONE YOU HAVE NOT BEEN PHYSICALLY INTIMATE WITH. It gives off creepy vibes, and most women would be uncomfortable.Do that in person!

EDIT: You will rarely ever be friend zoned if you make your intentions clear and direct.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-20T06:05:19+00:00

Find something o their profile you can make a funny playful comment on. Keep up the playful confidence for a few texts and then say "I like you, let's go out", or "you sound funny and interesting, I want to take you out for drinks on this day or that day". It is very important that you do it exactly as I have written it down and not change a single word (except specify the days). Most guys don't tell women they want to see them, they meekly hint at it or ask like pussies. This is a huge turn off.

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-20T09:42:49+00:00

it’s been said that texting too much isn’t a good idea, which i agree with. Just text to set up a date until you’ve had sex.

While in person, set the sexual frame.

rich_god · 2022-01-20T10:20:19+00:00

It depends on the reason you're communicating through texts. If it's a dating app, you don't need to talk, just try to set up a meeting. It's terribly boring to text with someone you don't know, unless you're really witty and able to make a text conversation exciting (which is a rare and difficult skill), don't bother with that.

If it's someone you met in person and want to keep some flow going, my advice would be to be authentic, to tell her that you think about her and to be short and simple. Just share what's going in your life (don't brag about the good stuff, don't complain about the bad stuff, but don't hide it either), ask about her and show that you care and are curious. Try to avoid mental conversation (about thoughts) and more emotional or sensorial topics (about feelings and sensations).

Title	How do you strike the right balance between being wholesome and sexual over text?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	20
Comments	32
Date	January 20, 2022 12:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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