How to become more arrogant?

DaygameCode · 2024-05-26T19:07:42+00:00

Arrogance and confidence are not the same thing.

Arrogance implies believing as if you think you better or superior than other people disrespecting, belittling or dismissing other people, and having an inflated sense of your own importance and abilities without any real justification, causing you to be closed to feedback, dismissive of constructive criticism and refusing to learn from others .

This often stems from an underlying insecurity, and arrogance is used to mask your self-doubt with a facade of superiority that deep down you know it isn’t true. And it makes you seek validation and approval from others to feel good about yourself while avoiding any situation where you feel you may not get that approval or success you seek to have to protect your ego.

Confidence, however, is having a realistic and positive belief in your own abilities without feeling the need to belittle others. It involves being self-assured and secure in your capabilities, which comes from a place of genuine self-awareness and acceptance of your limits. Confident people are open to feedback and learning, acknowledging their strengths and weaknesses with humility.

They treat others with respect, encourage and uplift those around them, and assert their opinions and needs clearly and respectfully without being overbearing. Confidence is rooted in internal validation and a healthy mindset, leading to constructive interactions and positive relationships.

When it comes to women, acting confident is basically being comfortable in your own skin despite having flaws that they may call out just to see if you feel comfortable about those flaws or whether you feel embarrassed about those flaws. It involves believing that who you are is realistically speaking good enough, even if others don’t want it, and not feeling butt hurt when someone doesn’t want it.

It means taking the initiative to pursue who you want without fear of getting a bad reaction, handling rejections gracefully and with humility. Lastly, not basing your worth as a man on your results, but instead basing it on your ability to recover from setbacks gracefully, and your willingness to take action and improve constantly to better yourself.

dogenes09 · 2024-05-26T19:35:43+00:00

Women don’t like arrogance- they like the self-assuredness, setting of boundaries, and willingness to walk away that tend to come with being arrogant. But all of those can come with confidence too- and better to be confident as the above response discusses.

Thierr · 2024-05-26T21:07:06+00:00

Simple. You don't! And be proud of being a kind human. Much of the reason arrogant guys get women is because of filling trauma bonding roles (daddy issues, lacking father approval that was distant, and aching for it, etc)

The only trap you need to look out for is not being a people pleaser and being kind in order to be liked.

drewster23 · 2024-05-26T23:51:39+00:00

I generally don't care too much about the approval of others. I really only care about what I think. However that also means I don't feel good when I get compliments or positive attention.

This isn't humblesss, this is self conscious/insecurity.

but for some reason that hasn't increased my confidence one bit. I still feel like a nobody.

X2

You don't need to become more arrogant you need to become more self confident inside.

Not needing others approval/validation is a good thing. But truly humble people still have inner confidence/aren't self conscious.

It can also be a conscious /subconscious defensive strategy so you can't get hurt by others.

Feeling like this. "but for some reason that hasn't increased my confidence one bit. I still feel like a nobody"

Makes me feel like you're more the latter than former.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-05-27T00:09:20+00:00

You're delusionally misguided. You can't be humble if you don't know your worth imo

I would get an accurate account of your strengths and weaknesses based on feedback you get and go from there

PUNCHCAT · 2024-05-27T02:07:51+00:00

Do you actually mean cocky-funny?

TuckerTheCuckFucker · 2024-05-27T10:18:13+00:00

It’s pretty arrogant of you to say you’re humble lmao you’re doing great

Title	How to become more arrogant?
Author	icxcnika1
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Comments	9
Date	May 26, 2024 6:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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