How to incite mystery?

revente · 2022-06-02T08:28:58+00:00

Speak less.

Don't be obvious.

When she speaks don't one-up her with your own story.

Keep some stuff private and don't give in to nosy people.

NineteenAD9 · 2022-06-02T13:50:25+00:00

It's not really about being mysterious, because let's be honest...most people are going to sound dumb as fuck saying things they think sound "mysterious" and women will just think you're weird or inept.

Its about being someone whose time and attention is valuable. Ultimately those two things are a part of what women want from a man. Have standards, make women qualify themselves to you, push back, have a mindset of abundance and indifference.

Example: A woman can see on your IG that you do all of these different things as a part of your lifestyle. So, there's no mystery to what you do and like. The challenge is her qualifying herself to get that time and to be a part of those things. You have to give them something to work for.

nopalesyqueso · 2022-06-02T08:40:32+00:00

Be counterintuitive

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-02T10:24:02+00:00

Come from a book called 48 laws of pover.

Say less than necesarry, just be superficial about everything and let her wonder and something that I like more called push pull i'd say its even more effective. Basic idea is that you say smth positive and negative at the same time like I love your dress but it doesnt fit for you or I thought I like you till you said that. Also makes you more "mysterious" and let her guessing does he like me ? When thats happen things usually happens to your favour

determinator94 · 2022-06-02T21:03:19+00:00

When she asks a question, give a vague answer. Bottom line respond with a stone cold face and keep your responses (or lack thereof) brief.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-06-03T08:11:15+00:00

-Don’t reply to her text quickly. -Play hot and cold game with her (act interested one day then ignore her the next day) -Talk less -Do things with out telling people.

Current-Weather-9561 · 2022-06-02T08:30:01+00:00

Don’t treat her like your only option. Women want to think “why isn’t he calling me beautiful like the 100s of men on Instagram”.

I would say creating the mysterious vibe is only relevant at the beginning. After that, I don’t think it matters as you’ve already got her hooked.

thedreamkillers · 2022-06-02T08:38:46+00:00

i've found success just by being overly ambiguous and contradictory with my words, it's all situational though, can't force it

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-02T15:16:03+00:00

My belief is “mystery” is just how women explain why it’s a turn on when they don’t know if a guy likes them.

So then the answer is to flirt in the obvious non-obvious way. Very strong eye contact, normal friendly conversation. If she bids for your attention or asks for favors she could be trying to solve the mystery so don’t come running for her assuming your goal is just to keep her in a state of never being sure.

“If he likes me, he’ll cancel his plans to help me with this thing”

Watch out for those favor asks. They’re technically not a bad sign as she’s trying to get time alone with you but it does solve the mystery, and a lot of women have learned to use that as a way to fix it if they’re going crazy wondering.

celestial-kitty2 · 2022-06-03T17:52:07+00:00

Be consistent. That should confuse her into thinking you’re “mysterious”

Title	How to incite mystery?
Author	realistfake12
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Date	June 2, 2022 8:18 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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