I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?

Fdc1210 · 2025-07-28T01:54:14+00:00

Tinder and hinge. I figured out older women is a cheat code to getting laid almost whenever you want. They usually are lonely, are thrilled that hot young guy is into them, and have already gotten over all their insecurities. I’m 30 now but over the past 5 years I went out with about 10 women over 35 and under 50. Great experiences. It will teach you a lot about women.

Just be yourself and also make it clear you want them physically. Be romantic and traditional. And be relaxed. If you get pushback over the age difference just tell them age is just a number and it feels right. Be chill

Ancient-Position-696 · 2025-07-28T01:50:19+00:00

Don't go looking for them. Go to where they'll be looking for you.

MapledMoose · 2025-07-28T02:48:54+00:00

Go to those 25+ bars, known for the "older crowd". Maybe their 30+ sometimes but you get the idea

Kindly-Draw2901 · 2025-07-28T17:00:37+00:00

Facebook dating if ifs available in your area. Banged a 30 year old and 35 year old so far off one month of using it

creole7supreme · 2025-07-28T04:28:12+00:00

Retirement home

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-07-28T20:22:08+00:00

Go to networking events where women are the majority. Think real estate, event planning, interior design. There should be a good amount of single women in that age bracket. Some will be divorced and have kids so not sure if that's a deal breaker for you depending on what you're looking for.

Had success playing that field when I was single in my late twenties.

g00g0lig00 · 2025-07-29T21:14:25+00:00

I (also 26m) am with you on that one, although my limit would be pushing 40

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-28T03:28:27+00:00

It's out of my wheelhouse as I don't do casual relationships and don't like big dating age gaps. But I'd say be honest and direct as you would and should be around someone closer to your age. There are plenty of attractive mature women everywhere you go. The tougher part will be finding ones who would have any interest fooling around with a guy your age.

Bars in general might not be a bad idea in this case. You could experiment and try ones in different locations like in the city, in the suburbs and so forth. Hotel bars may also be worth pursuing as someone mentioned. Just tell them very early on what you're looking for and if you both are on board, there you go.

Look to see if she's wearing a ring and I'd probably even ask to make sure she is not married. You don't want to be a homewrecker regardless of the casualness of the situation. Who knows what she's going through in that moment.

dogenes09 · 2025-07-28T09:57:47+00:00

Steak restaurants and hotel bars.

9940226 · 2025-07-28T17:27:35+00:00

Me too!!!!!!! Daily boring life places

you_know_you_love_it · 2025-07-30T03:20:42+00:00

Twitter has always brought me good fortune

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-07-30T19:35:57+00:00

hotel bars is where most older women are... mostly a 40 year old wont fuck you unless your game is good.. its all about frame and you done this before type of vibe

RadioWhatsNew · 2025-07-31T04:05:56+00:00

Older women are working out. Join a kickboxing class, boxing, yoga, salsa dancing etc.

Lonely_Waffle12 · 2025-07-28T09:23:59+00:00

Nursing homes

warlockflame69 · 2025-07-28T16:40:55+00:00

Senior folks home on bingo night

Exotic-Turn-8985 · 2025-07-28T01:45:08+00:00

Gotta have you stuff together, look good , smell good and approach one take her dinner , shopping something different. I’m older dated few young guys they not got it together so we split ways one now likes young girls, the other a hoe

hachapurik · 2025-07-30T21:23:23+00:00

3fun

GrouchNslouch777 · 2025-07-31T11:21:57+00:00

If you need to go meet older women to get opportunities with them, this is a bad sign.

Older women are pretty desperate and will hop on your dick if youre even remotely attractive to them.

I'd say that you should just go monk mode and fix yourself up to where you can easily get young thin women to casually fuck you.

Because if you can do that, you'll never have to ask this question again. Older women will just appear.

Title	I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?
Author	ThatChromeCR
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Date	July 28, 2025 1:35 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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