I don't get what I'm doing wrong

southparkslope · 2024-04-03T00:39:58+00:00

This dude invoked Rothschilds as the reason he is rejected. Holy moly. Weak sister shit here.

He ain’t going to like the advice.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-04-03T00:58:20+00:00

Difficult to say without more detail. How many approaches have you done? This is largely a numbers game if you only approach one or two girls a week it'll take months to get a date. How many numbers have you got.

If you're approaching in volume then it's something about what you're presenting to the women. You say you dress well so it then comes down to your personality. You sound a bit desperate and needy, maybe that's being projected when you talk to these women. But it could be a ton of other things, do you have good eye contact, do you have good voice tonality, are you relaxed etc.

You're not really giving much useful detail for people to offer advice., you're just having a rant.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-04-03T06:38:02+00:00

Well, I'd say that first of all, don't mention anti-Semitic conspiracy theories like the Rothschilds controlling your life. That tends to put women off. And most people in general.

That said, even the best of us are going to be rejected 95% of the time. It's a numbers game. If you approach a hundred women, you'll probably find 5-10 that want to date you, and of them, one will sleep with you.

I've watched countless videos and read countless reddit posts and I practiced but nothing works

Well, most of the advice online, including here, sucks ass. There's only a handful of self proclaimed seduction teachers on this sub and I have yet to see a single one of them actually teach anyone how to talk to a woman. They'll tell you the importance of hygiene, which women to avoid, how to be confident enough to talk to women, but never tell you what to say. Most seduction influencers online are really just rage farming to increase viewers and don't have any interest in giving real advice.

I'm also not a nice guy.

What does that mean, exactly? It can mean different things to different people. For some, it means they're abusive. For others, they're dominant. Some also just consider themselves good at setting boundaries. If you're an abusive asshole, that will make women not want to be around you.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2024-04-03T04:40:30+00:00

Dont listen to anyone here. You can do it. To succeed, internally you need to believe in yourself. It should not take "a massive amount of willpower" which actually means you are faking your confidence. People can tell, unlock yout true confidence.

Goldliner6263 · 2024-04-03T06:57:08+00:00

Difficult to give advice unless you provide more context on your situation. How many have you approached? Are you overweight? If you met a girl on Tinder, would you be nervous in person?

Cold approaching is very difficult, might wanna work your way up to it. Like hustling datings apps first. Much easier and will give you a lot of experience and confidence.

Also, dating is hard as fuck when your'e 18. Unless you're meeting girls through your friends network. Like at parties etc. Whatever you do, don't beat yourself up and give up.

Just keep trying to make progess, DO NOT GIVE UP.

This article might help. give it a read.

https://theredarchive.com/blog/Good-Looking-Loser/guys-that-should-probably-not-start-aa-drills-or.35282

If you're very overweight. Doesn't matter how many you approach.

ClitPlayaBootySlappa · 2024-04-03T07:10:18+00:00

I was you at 18. I definitely know the type of shit you wanna hear.

Watch this ("Some men just want sex from women, but they are too afraid to say it" - Alan Roger Currie R.I.P.) : https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E Start at 4:25

and here he shows how to do the approach step by step: https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko

Here's his old website you can read, where he shares the mindset and gives examples.

https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html

Everything he saying is facts. I tried it, and experienced the same fucking thing. It works the way its intended to work which is:

You get laid quicker with women that wanna fuck, and you don't waste time with women that don't wanna fuck.

Let me know, what you think. I bet it's completely different from the advice, you've gotten.

DaygameCode · 2024-04-03T22:50:40+00:00

Self-reflection requires to look for things that you don’t give much importance too but which actually are. Your game matters and yet you only talk about your looks and think that looks alone should be enough.

If women ghost that means two things 1 is that your message doesn’t make her feel emotions which should indicate to you that your game is mid.

And also that if you asked for their number or whatever in person you just relied on your looks and not on an actual connection, probably you asked for the number in less than 2 minutes or even less than one minute almost straight away which of course will make girls thing you do this with other girls and not give you a chance.

So your self reflection should start about why your game is so mid. Looks are not enough. To sleep with women you have to make them feel emotions like sexual tension, connection, trust, affinity, be on the same wave length, being smooth escalating, being fun and making them laugh, etc

ROBYoutube · 2024-04-02T23:57:54+00:00

Dude, you're 18. You're in the dating pool with 27 year old grown ass men with careers, cash for cool, fun shit, and the ability to adult.

I'm also not a nice guy.

I heard this weird rumour that women are people and like being around people who make them feel good, maybe investigate this instead of listening to insecure weirdos.

TRTGymBro · 2024-04-02T23:48:24+00:00

You are not going to like my answer or solution.

Title	I don't get what I'm doing wrong
Author	LilSwaggio
Upvotes	2
Comments	32
Date	April 2, 2024 11:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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