For the past year I’ve been trying to improve my life and work on myself. It really has not helped with my dating life and I cant figure out why

I’m 26, 5’9”, and 160 lbs. I lift everyday and lifts are probably in advance beginner or novice territory. I have a good job and make over 6 figures. I dress okay and have a good haircut. Hygiene is good, skin is good. I’m not chad but I have my shit together.

For a while I had zero success with girls. I just focused on myself and occasionally tried a dating app and would get zero matches. Last month I downloaded hinge and had better success. I lowered my standards a bit and wound up going on 4 dates. None of them really went that well and didn’t have any second dates. I made out with one girl but that was it.

I’m very frustrated cause I just don’t get what I’m doing wrong. I’ve worked very hard to improve and will keep doing so, but it would help just to figure out what specifically isn’t going well so I can work on it.