If you have a shaved head

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-31T07:36:54+00:00

No, you don't. Look at Neil Strauss.

But it certainly helps!

Attraction can be made up of many different factors. If you're less physically attractive then having a high social status and having a very charming personality can still put you into the "attractive" category for many.

Likewise, shaved head may detract from your looks - but muscles improve your looks. So they can kind of cancel out each other.

HomelessMilkman · 2025-05-31T10:18:11+00:00

I can never fathom why people overlook 'not being visibly tense and uncomfortable' as #1 on the list for physical attractiveness. It's not even close to #2, which is looking exactly like me.

I joke, but seriously, there's no incentive to give you the real answer because you can't sell it. Can sell you a gym membership, a cool jacket, a hat, a car, etc. but no, you just have to not look like you've got a stick up your ass, you have to wake up, untense your shoulders, relax, value yourself; you can have any permutation of physical traits and women still won't like you if your body is locked in a state of fear.

How do we know if you think you're cool or not? Whether you're tense, nervous, uncomfortable, etc. No one cares if you're bald, everyone cares when you walk into a situation thinking you're not good enough and proceed to be fucking weird.

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-05-31T07:56:38+00:00

I am going to say, dressing well and owning the look is more important.

Also as far as the shaven head thing goes, I am also going to say it depends on your age. If your an older guy, shaven head + goatee or facial stubble, is probably better than thinning hair or a horse shoe.

Of course if you are self conscious of it and doubting yourself then no it will not help. Its almost like what goes off in your mind is the most important (shocker eh).

As far as being muscular, again confidence and belief in your self is most important. But... being fat and/or obese is going to make things more challenging.

But over all I would say that dressing well and looking the shit is the most important.

underwatere · 2025-05-31T08:01:03+00:00

I love a shaved head! Bald or buzz-cut, I love running my hands over it! It's what's inside that really matters.

epimpstyle · 2025-05-31T10:48:10+00:00

A few years ago, RSD Tyler and other dating coaches shaved their heads to prove to their students that having hair, or not having it, makes no difference to their success rate.

It is way more important having a good first impression (wear nice clothes, being clean, smelling good...etc) + a good attitude (optimistic, friendly, playful) + having charisma (know how to talk with people by having a smile, a pretty high energy, be enthusiastic while talking).

Not everyone is a natural charismatic person, for this reason they can use routines/gambits, at first they fake it but shortly they become good at faking and become charismatic. If you're a natural charismatic person, kudos to you, hats off.

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-05-31T14:49:42+00:00

I think it depends on how your hair looks when not being shaven. If shaving/very low cut is an improvement, then it won't matter

VelvetSinclair · 2025-05-31T07:31:27+00:00

https://youtu.be/okFLkoJXXqo?si=XIyMyvSDDcAHNWAs

Generally, women seem to prefer a middle ground of masculinity in a man

Too feminine, and he's seen as weak, not able to protect

Too masculine and he's seen as too dangerous, the sort you need protection from

Shaving your head definitely increases the masculinity of your look, and is generally seen as unattractive in women.

But some lean muscularity wouldn't hurt imo

z0rb0r · 2025-05-31T07:29:34+00:00

Just look at Stanley Tucci, not muscular but very handsome

therichest1 · 2025-05-31T09:44:34+00:00

However you look, you decide how attractive you are! And that depends on your confidence and authenticity! I had a bad haircut one time instead of becoming embarrassed it became my go to conversation starter and how the situation went...we even had jokes about it with the barber and laughed it off, I'd make jokes about myself...another time I had this very old belt, it looked really old sometimes I'd wear it just for conversation that it attaracted😂 It's quite crazy how people will roll with just how you feel, if you are insecure about it, you will see things that will trigger your insecurity everywhere! Rock whatever hairstyle you want my dude it's on you how you are treated! Just remember to put on your confidence and authenticity then you will attract beautiful conscious women. I say that because given there are robotic girls that are not conscious and can't think for themselves! If those reject you it's a win🎉 Go home and have a glass of whatever you like😎

twitchy · 2025-05-31T09:45:41+00:00

Bald men who are insecure because they are bald is not going to be attractive to anyone not attracted to insecure men

Durragon · 2025-05-31T11:05:19+00:00

I learned that when I shave my head I look older, and my jawline is more accented.

But the real kicker is I look like a bootleg/wish version of Johnny sins... Just the face, haha

FromGymToBoudoir · 2025-05-31T10:48:32+00:00

You always need to be muscular to be considered attractive to women. Search up “Body Game” on YouTube or watch how women react to muscular aesthetic men on the streets or even on the Omeagle app. Not being fit is doing oneself a disservice.

As a part time bald guy, I’ve noticed that in the past the women that approached me when I was bald was mostly in their 30’s or older. I’ve gotten lucky with a few 23-24 year olds but mostly older women showing interest when I’m at bars or dating platforms.

That being said, I tried out a non-surgical transplant: toupee, hair system, rug, whatever what you want to call it, and I live in a college town. I’ve noticed there was a slight change in the chicks that flirted and I’ve made out in a night. Usually 18-21 age range on campus.

While baldness isn’t the ultimate doom, it can affect he type of women you’re trying to seduce.

KarmicPlaneswalker · 2025-05-31T10:13:25+00:00

It's not so much required as it is expected. Otherwise bald head and thin build create stereotypes and an image associated with being a junkie.

KumaFGC · 2025-05-31T08:14:23+00:00

Why are you bald. Mr. Clean ass mf

Title	If you have a shaved head
Author	Just_Party96
Upvotes	28
Comments	34
Date	May 31, 2025 7:21 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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