Just did my (22M) first cold approach today!

Outrageous_Length639 · 2021-11-25T17:40:18+00:00

That sounds like an ice cold approach, I prefer cold approaches where you have at least smiled and made eye contact with the girl first.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-25T20:52:31+00:00

Dont tell them you approach them because they are pretty or else they will just assume you do that with all the pretty girls and aren’t genuinely interested in them.

Say: You noticed something more specific about her

kittybrehbreh · 2021-11-26T02:46:08+00:00

Y’all shit on this man so hard for his first approach. It’s takes practice to develop a mouthpiece, keep trying bro

ForestFlowerFairy · 2021-11-25T22:50:01+00:00

I'm Irish and it's funny , this cold approach hardly ever happens here, unless it's creeps or forgeiners it's just not how we do things at all. Being single here can be so boring as men are shy /hold back so much I find. Unless maybe drunk. No hate though it's interesting it's just really not in our culture, imo, I live in a town near our capital, maybe its different down the country... doubt it.

hoothoot6996 · 2021-11-26T04:05:35+00:00

hahah that diamond comparison had me rolling

but what I do is just say hi or how you doing to as many girls I find attractive as possible.

That doesn't mean I don't talk to girls that I'm not attracted towards.

but yeah I'm proud of you for doing that

Equivalent_Ad7389 · 2021-11-26T10:47:59+00:00

Good job man. I know you're proud of yourself for just doing it. It only gets easier and this is the best way to find the most attractive women simply because you subconsciously communicate to their brain "I'm not afraid of tension or rejection." This is highly desirable to women.

MrHouseGang · 2021-11-26T04:45:43+00:00

Take out the “sorry” and you’re gold

SnooMachines1406 · 2021-11-26T13:45:12+00:00

great job bro you will get better with time. Cold approach works just know it takes time and a lot of attempts have fun.

Bvoasis · 2021-11-26T03:49:39+00:00

Just have a regular conversation it’s less stress and less taxing

goonbag_goblin · 2021-12-09T00:21:17+00:00

Hell yeah, sober and everything, takes balls.

I usually only do with a friend or with the help of alcohol, thankfully i am perpetually drinking.

gangoni · 2021-11-25T19:12:53+00:00

Mall ain’t the place to approach cause people going on about their business and you’d just be interfering unless you’re drop dead attractive.

Also, saying hey as your first word when interacting is a bad idea because it’s borderline boring and you have to stand out from the many of guys approaching her also saying hey or hi.

Be bold, be memorable.

Also, don’t reveal your cards so fast, you admitted that she was pretty and where did that get you? rejected and she gets to go home feeling like a bad bitch cause someone called her pretty, don’t be giving free validation to these wamans.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2021-11-25T21:29:05+00:00

despite what those PUA teachers say I think Cold approach is a big waste of time and hard on the feet.... if you have a good social circle, you should more or less use your social circle... throw events, game nights, parties, invite every girl you know out to the night club offer to pick them up/pay for uber. I started with just hanging out with my cousins and their friends... you will have girls approach you if you have enough girls around.. i had new partners all the time vs just going out with PUA guys or Cold approach. I think i only got laid once going out alone now that i think about it...

putcoolusernamehere · 2021-11-26T00:29:04+00:00

That's a bad way to approach. Try to build some rapport before asking her out, and try to compliment her on something specific about her style rather than saying "pretty". But good for you putting yourself out there.

Title	Just did my (22M) first cold approach today!
Author	Kiredis
Upvotes	117
Comments	47
Date	November 25, 2021 5:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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