What's up all? So a few months back i jumped from single guy having a blast hooking up into a relationship after being single for almost 3 years (by choice).

Anyways, i find that now I'm in a relationship, I'm slowly going back into that afc mode, and it's killing me. I never used routines or anything, and relied on inner game, but i seem to be losing some of that. How can i keep my game while being in a relationship?

An example of afc behavior: i don't show neediness, but i feel it sometimes. My gf has some anxiety issues, and i'll often get the same feeling. Just some standard afc shit. How do i kill this again? (I've done it before and am confident i can again)