Milking the intro.

1independentmale · 2012-03-01T00:06:20+00:00

Neat idea and I've done this before subconsciously. Video had a lot of fluff in it, though. Felt like watching a used car salesman pitch his wares. Took him 8 minutes to explain a 30 second concept in large part because he danced around the issue for far too long.

Summary: Meet a woman, shake her hand, don't let go until she does. Boom, saved you 8 minutes of your life.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-02-29T20:05:24+00:00

I've tried that, I wondered where I heard that from. Yes, it does work surprisingly well at creating instant attraction. No, a woman generally won't say anything that would confront you about holding her hand so long. You short circuited her rational mind and went straight for the tactile-emotional circuit.

totalradass · 2012-03-01T02:44:44+00:00

For the truly socially retarded: hold her hand, but don't keep shaking it the whole time. I can just see some awkward penguin turned pua shaking some poor shy girls hand for 30 seconds straight while she is ever so slightly shaking in fear.

calling_you_dude · 2012-02-29T21:26:07+00:00

"Why are you still letting me?"

or anything like that.

2012-03-01T04:51:42+00:00

I dunno man just say whatever. "Because I have a confession.. I'm addicted to handshakes." Then maybe go off on it if you have an opening to. Relate it to alcoholism/AA. Be a funny dude if you're a funny dude.

afcchamp12 · 2012-03-01T02:13:47+00:00

So if she pulls away extremely fast does that mean you shouldn't even try? Or can attraction/seduction still be built?

g1h2 · 2012-03-01T01:30:27+00:00

This could work but after a while some girls will get freaked out if you just hold on for a long time (sometimes they are too polite to just pull away). I think you should hold on for 5-10 seconds, any more seems a bit ridiculous.

2012-03-01T03:32:08+00:00

Great move! Will start doing.

rakendrachen · 2012-03-01T03:58:24+00:00

this seems like a cool idea, but does anyone think it might come off as creepy?

2012-03-01T07:08:23+00:00

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rmbarnes · 2012-03-01T09:45:37+00:00

"Why are you holding my hand still"

They never say that. If they are really uncomfortable the most they do is take their hand back. Remember both of you are holding hands.

McGoldfish · 2012-03-01T23:47:33+00:00

I do this sometimes as well. If she holds on long enough you can say:"I know I have nice hands, but can I have mine back now?" (with a smile).

Ragas · 2012-03-06T21:06:31+00:00

Hm I tried this last friday.

I'm in spain right now, so it's not really customary to shake hands.

As we shook hands she first tried to retract her hand, but as she realized I didn't let go too, she left her hand there, we talked 1 or 2 sentences and then she gave me the usual two kisses.

I think you can barely get more out of an introduction.

kid-vicious · 2012-06-19T05:03:16+00:00

How would you respond to "Can I have my hand back now?"

crazyinthecoconut · 2012-03-01T02:43:57+00:00

I've done this. The girl's friend-zoned friend was stand right beside her as I did it. He literally had to carry her out of the bar before I stole her away from him.

2012-02-29T22:58:20+00:00

If I clearly can't go for a hug, I like going for the handshake exactly because of this. I never consciously realized I did it until now.

lilnba93 · 2012-06-19T02:35:05+00:00

if the girl said why are you holding my hand still i would respond with, " why? why not? "

Title	Milking the intro.
Author	Vegetaness
Upvotes	34
Comments	38
Date	February 29, 2012 7:11 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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