Mystery method

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-07T18:29:45+00:00

Mystery method not really "one method" persé. It's just a bunch of teachings combined from this old school Pick Up Artist guy that calls himself "Mystery." And he called his method "The Mystery Method".

But his basic method is nightclub game. There he would use an indirect approach where he pretends he's not interested to begin with. Then he also talks about 3 stages:

Attraction (sparking interest by pretending to be a "high value male". High social status "alpha male" essentially, and using Peacocking (dressing in an attention-grabbing way), and doing cold reading or magic tricks (or mentalism tricks), and demonstrating high value through storytelling.
Comfort (building trust)
Seduction (physical escalation)

For each step, he had small routines that you could memorize and practice.

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-07-07T18:21:08+00:00

The book is decently good, but the main innovation is the breakdown of seduction into:

Attraction

Comfort

Seduction

You can skip the canned lines and some 2004 specific aspects, but the underlying structure is universal.

Pristineonk · 2026-07-07T18:33:43+00:00

This sub should sticky certain thread. Someone made a 'recap' of basically every 'method' out there and condensed each method down to just a few paragraphs to get rid of all the waffle they used to pad out the books. I could probably find the posts but I do'nt think you can link posts on this sub without them being instantly deleted

But basically,

open. Indirect. Opinion opener Use a false time constraint.

Would look like 'Hi, I've only got 2 mins, but I wanted your opinion on something. Who lies more, men or women?'

Now, lets assume you are the ugliest guy in the world and she is a 10/10 super model. YOu need to somehow make her attracted.

The tools are mainly DHV stories and negs (as well as magic tricks in his case. He was a professional magician)

So after she answers your question, you can neg her and ask her if her nails are real, knowing that they aren't. Then say 'shame. You just lost a few points there' when she gives the answer. Or tease her that her elbows are too pointy. They are supposed to play playful teases/insults. I have examples from his venucian playbook from the man himself

Now you can tell a DHV story. A little brag story, usually about how lots of girls like you (called 'pre selection'), and/or that you are a 'leader of men' etc.

She should be very attracted to you now (according to the book at least)

Now you can qualify her. Say 'what do you have going for you other than your looks? Beauty is very common'. Since she is so attracted she will qualify herself to you like how she would if you were some male model or wahtever. She tell you that she is also very clever and successful and kind etc.

Reward her and tell her that was a good answer.

Now we go into 'comfort' and get to know her more. Ask her about herself etc etc. build more 'trust'

Now we go into 'seduciton' whcih is when you ramp up the touch and escalate, physically towards sex

jsbach123 · 2026-07-07T18:46:02+00:00

Why not buy a copy and read the book?

epimpstyle · 2026-07-07T18:47:20+00:00

You can’t explain an entire book in a few sentences. Everything is explained in the book "How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed."

You need to pay attention because the title isn't just about "how to get a woman into bed" but specifically about BEAUTIFUL women, so this plays in a different league. While you can get away with saying silly things to an average-looking girl and still do well, those same things are a sign of a lack of creativity and have no value to a classy, beautiful woman who is already used to constant compliments and people trying to impress her.

This method is intended for nightgame, actually, for bar-game, where you have enough time to talk to a woman. In daygame, however, things happen much faster; even so, many of the same concepts are used there as well.

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2026-07-07T20:12:31+00:00

How this guy got any pussy is a Mystery.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2026-07-07T19:31:39+00:00

read the book

rocksos · 2026-07-07T20:23:19+00:00

You can also do things the exact opposite of what mystery teaches and still be running perfect game, but it will be direct game instead of indirect game, which is quite cool (so you are very forward with your intent instead of hiding your intent)

refreshingface · 2026-07-07T20:30:22+00:00

Forget all of those tactics. Get in good shape, dress well, approach girls you think are attractive. Learn from your mistakes

That’s it.

MoodyButGroovy · 2026-07-08T08:33:10+00:00

Is there a specific part you wanted explained?

walkbythe_river · 2026-07-07T18:10:50+00:00

same first time i heard of it was the other day

Title	Mystery method
Author	GlobalChemistry2765
Upvotes	14
Comments	24
Date	July 7, 2026 5:55 PM UTC (2 weeks ago)
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