FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT.

Sure, you may look around the dance floor and see some guys who “just have it” and some guys that “just don’t”.

Maybe you are one of the guys that just doesn’t have it. But no one will notice until you prove other wise.

Dress well, be fit, get your life together. Everybody is gonna think highly of you.

Learn communication skills. Watch presentations by expert communicators, listen to how they talk about expressions and body language.

Now stand in front of the mirror and practice your looks. Practice your introductions, practice your garbage pick up lines you read from outdated PUA books, practice your smile and make it unique. Practice giving compliments, practice strong handshakes and light shoulder and elbow touching.

Now go out there and fake that your the most high value confident man on the planet! Don’t worry, no one will ever know that your incredibly insecure, have low self esteem, or have a lot of social anxiety.

As long as you can learn how to fake being charismatic and charming, you can become the guy you’ve always dreamed of being!