One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)

Poshtech · 2020-06-14T16:59:46+00:00

I wonder if you would have more success by keeping the conversations shorter and flirtier. For example, in the last approach you could have ended the conversation on a high note by saying that you had to go but you were interested in spending some time with her. You should save the long conversations for dates.

proximityzero12 · 2020-06-14T17:17:34+00:00

I love reading these .. it gives hope that girls are just normal like us and theres no need to panic

~ Shy guys community

pirobinha · 2020-06-14T17:02:45+00:00

Good afternoon, ur biggest fan here, since you said interaction 6 was one of your favorites yet, I think you could've elaborated a little more, I couldn't get what happened very clearly, but great job for the rest, ur making history

warpGuru · 2020-06-14T18:58:04+00:00

I am not sure what kind of success you will have with cold approaching people in this covid environment. Even if they are in to you it might not be the best time. Not trying to put down your game, it's just a reality check..

revente · 2020-06-14T21:46:26+00:00

Nice! Why didn’t you number close the last one? ABC -Always Be Closing!

mjshibz · 2020-06-14T20:24:55+00:00

What would you rate yourself? Are you an average joe?

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-06-14T23:43:31+00:00

Ok. So why was #6 “more successful”?

It’s because there was a bit of natural flirtatious energy. All your others blow out bc you offer no flirtatious energy. You are some random guy approaching them with normal conversation because..........? 🤷‍♂️ You feel me?

The natural energy that was in #6 can be created with others. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, it’s honest to show sexual gentlemanly intent. It’s dishonest to ask about helmets and clipboards unless you’re some freak helmet and clipboard collector.

You need to flirt if you want these to go anywhere past “I have a boyfriend”.

That said, good job in continuing. #6 was a perfect time to give her your number. Stop asking

BuyerOfCoins · 2020-06-14T16:04:46+00:00

Love to read these. Very inspiring. I actually liked the reports where you gave more details a little more though.
I’ve been lacking real hard in the approach department lately bc of this corona stuff and I hate it. Approach anxiety is back in full force :/.

Should’ve gone for the number at the last one tho! Very promising interaction :).

revente · 2020-06-14T19:24:56+00:00

It appears you're still super outcome dependent man. Like your only objective is getting numbers, you're going to learn that it isn't effective. You need to make real connections and try and get instant dates rather than having a big "successful day" with getting a number.

It also appears you're coming off too strong or something is off about you if they keep telling you immediately they have a bf. All girls will entertain a conversation with you if you are giving a good vibe and may even give a number but you're probably being too direct. Direct is good, you want your intentions known but try dialing it back on a few sets and let them chase a bit more after the open

Odawg20miles · 2020-06-14T22:52:53+00:00

Can’t wait till you post. That you got some action. It will be epic. Cheers my friend.

training4wizardry · 2020-06-15T01:55:13+00:00

Opened your first two set GREAT JOB!

Your flirt game seems to be working decently here, I agree with those saying to start throwing your flirt game out there more.

Solid EYE CONTACT!! FINALLY you SAY this!! Keep doing that, every time.

Shockingly, girls that are 10-like can handle it more often, you will find, than not. Surpise surprise and good job. Women with strong feminity and no goofy emotional hang ups tend to give you major props for rolling up directly, honestly, and appropriately. This is because the vast majority of guys do not 'approach' 10's properly in any way. Most guys say and do strange, indirect things that your 10's have seen so many, many times.

I like how you are not just doing just in-motion or nearly in-motion street approaches. Sitting is fine, whatever situation is fine. I encourage you to MASSIVELY mix of your variety of approach scenarios, there is so much more to learn in other set ups.

Keep with the eye contact, it is quite Key.

Great job and Keep going !!!

h1mera · 2020-06-15T09:06:02+00:00

I see that your next post will be: I did 100 approaches and get only 3 phone numbers. What I’m doing wrong? Your problem is that you are not listening suggestions. What are you doing now has nothing to do with seduction.

PlatinumSavage1 · 2020-06-14T19:38:39+00:00

It's nice to see how cold approaches aren't nearly as effective as these guys are making them out to be. Y'all are a bunch of try-hards by constantly going and doing these cold approaches, and then posting about how the interaction failed spectacularly.

johnnycu95 · 2020-06-14T16:40:35+00:00

I highly recommend reading the "The Swerve By Method" by Hams Comyn while you are doing this challenge. Hams argues that "pick-up" style cold approach and forcing conversation is unnatural, pushy and often kills the attraction when the conversation gets awkward and boring and the girls get uncomfortable.

In his "Swerve By Method", you find a girl you like, give her a compliment her then leave without asking for anything or saying anything else. Women who like you will chase after you if they like you, and the women who don't will not.

Title	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)
Author	Hanan019
Upvotes	67
Comments	30
Date	June 14, 2020 11:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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