Online Dating?

divB_is_zero · 2013-05-17T19:51:59+00:00

I went out with a couple girls online. In my experience they are either epically desperate or socially inept. Real life is much better.

ace_bandit · 2013-05-17T20:08:53+00:00

I've had a bunch of same night lays and 2 relationships with people I've met online. There will be lots of desperate women and fatties, but there's a lot of girls who just don't like getting hit on by drunk guys at the bar and still want to meet someone.

HelloHiHello · 2013-05-17T20:34:24+00:00

Online dating isn't ridiculous at all... it's a great tool to have in the arsenal.

That being said, I rarely use it anymore (but I have in the past with good results). I prefer day game, because that's where all the top quality women are, and they're not expecting to be approached, so you have the advantage from the get-go.

With online dating, it's a sheer number's game (gotta send batches of messages, at least 30+ a day), plus it's shitty to think of how much work you have to put in for average quality girls.

There are lots of gorgeous girls around my area during the daytime, so online dating just isn't worth the effort. But it's still a fantastic place to meet girls (especially a lot of them), with a little less work overall.

agentargoh · 2013-05-17T23:02:02+00:00

I've had some good success with OKC. Just get a good quality profile picture of your face, fill out the details and be interesting. It's definitely a numbers game, but you can do it while watching TV or w/e. I started out with pretty poor luck, but got better at it after a week or two.

I've definitely met up with some whose photos made them look much more attractive than they actually are and a few that were just fucking weird. Because of this, I usually make a date that has a definite ending and if I am into them meet up later that night for drinks. For example, we do lunch at noon, but I have to "help my friend move a couch at 1:30". If things go well I tell them I'll call them later and we can finish up with some drinks. That system has been working pretty well for me.

And of course, don't let it affect your sarging.

RedShirtedAss · 2013-05-18T02:13:57+00:00

Its not ridiculous but picture a hot girl's inbox. Its going to be flooded with thousands of messages, so its going to be very hard for you to stand out. That's why daygame is so much easier because the guys that online date don't approach these girls in person, so when you do an approach in person you stand out a lot more. Bravo does a decent clinic on online dating, you should check out the video on youtube.

SupALupRT · 2013-05-18T23:40:18+00:00

Online dating isnt great. You gain more points then you realize for just manning up and approaching in person. Online dating usually you'll be settling for someone 2 points or more lower than you can pull in person. So much of what we say is in our body language and how we say it, and with what energy. Of the girls I've hooked up with via online only 2 were hot, rest were like 6s :| Sometimes the fact that I'm 33 with a kid weakens me haha.

slan45 · 2013-05-17T21:09:14+00:00

It's a great supplement to going out and doing the real thing. Dating is a numbers game. With online dating, particularly okcupid, you already know a lot about the girl before meeting in person, making it very easy to close if you're interested.

I've had two long term relationships with girls I've met online and lots of 1st date f-closes as well. (All HB8-10)

These were not girls who were desperate or socially inept.

backtothegame · 2013-05-17T21:46:06+00:00

It's advanced A+++ level pua. If you have mastered in person pickup and gotten pickier and pickier it's worth looking at, there is a definite system to it.

Most guys shotgun it and then are disappointed with the results. Basically the AFC's of the online world and thank god for that cause it makes the competition weak.

Title	Online Dating?
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Date	May 17, 2013 7:48 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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