Pulling women is not that complicated?

SilverFoxBurner · 2026-05-29T22:34:23+00:00

I mean that’s basically it… another way to break it down: 1. Build rapport & establish attraction 2. Create danger & excitement 3. Encourage emotional energy 4. Get your kiss

ApartmentWorried5692 · 2026-05-30T01:33:17+00:00

The biggest culprits are inner game. Whenever I saw someone else talk to girls and get with them, they had a WAY different wiring than I had when starting. What’s simple to them is intricate for me.

Basically this: you don’t need “tactics” to get with girls, that’s PUA slop. I’d recommend reading “Models” and “No More Mr Nice Guy”. A guy who uses tactics on women is a guy who is trying to unlock the safe without the code and trying to get her to like him. Women HATE men who try to win them over. That’s the #1 thing movies have fucked us up on.

HomelessMilkman · 2026-05-30T06:47:39+00:00

You're missing the average guy being able to do those things and the woman actually 'liking' it.

Being able to communicate in an 'attractive', appealing, engaging, charismatic way that will leave her receptive to those things is doing all the heavy lifting.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-29T23:25:28+00:00

Having the right energy is the thing guys struggle with.

A lot of guys are either nervous, overthinking, or trying too hard to be a badass.

jackthehat6 · 2026-05-30T12:45:33+00:00

correct. It's actually VERY easy. The reason guys make it sound hard is because they are trying to solve an impossible problem (and sell courses adn coaching). How to MAKE a girl want you. There isn't a way lol. As we see in infields from coaches.

In reality it is as simple as flirting, showing intent. And then IF she is interested, it all honestly takes care of itself

devonthed00d · 2026-05-30T08:29:47+00:00

Instructions Unclear: I am now in jail.

FunkmasterJoe · 2026-05-30T02:54:03+00:00

Honestly 1. "Treat them like people" also works really well, because of how they literally are people.

haftzabaa · 2026-05-31T08:26:34+00:00

If you are on a date the likelihood of her pushing you away from touching her in normal ways is quite low and also isn't particularly indicative of whether she'll want to kiss you.

You can also just invite her over and do the kiss once she's over without having done much touch beforehand.

neverTouchedWomen · 2026-05-29T22:43:38+00:00

nope, thats good enough.

thatxboxlivekid · 2026-06-03T01:05:15+00:00

There is so much missing here its not even funny.

Talk?
How do you approach? If she is very plane how? Talking about generic stuff gets boring easily and she will forget about you. What do you discuss and escalate?

When should you start touching? Hand on the thigh? Jump in for a kiss afterwards?

Title	Pulling women is not that complicated?
Author	newme19283
Upvotes	24
Comments	16
Date	May 29, 2026 10:26 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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