Read this really cool comment by mothman83 in AskReddit that succinctly sums up this subreddit: WOMEN WANT MEN OTHER WOMEN WANT

apple_kicks · 2013-01-28T11:24:13+00:00

Thought the higher comment put it best, but that's because it is alot shorter and no bold internet shouting!!!!!11one.

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"As a woman, I can explain this! When a guy is ridiculously confident, it generally means he expects women of a high caliber. We want to be that woman of a high caliber for you. On the flip side, when there's a shy guy who's always down on himself, thinking he couldn't possibly be worthy of a great woman, why on earth would you want to be that kind of okay woman that he can get?

In conclusion, pumping your egos works because it's all about pumping our egos!!"

Also why that beautiful mind rule does kinda work.

organictact · 2013-01-28T05:26:18+00:00

It's amazing to see the difference this can cause. I live in a fairly large city and if I walk down the street alone, I might get one eye contact. If I walk down the street with my wife, suddenly almost every girl is looking at me and making eye contact. If it wasn't for her smacking me in the back of the head i could probably open 10 girls just going to the grocery store. :)

The same thing kind of works to a lesser extent with wearing my wedding ring and/or dropping a wife mention in conversation. It'll usually bring down their defenses a notch or at least make them more friendly & chatty.

kingcal · 2013-01-28T03:59:25+00:00

It's called pre-selection. There's lots of videos about this exact subject.

destinys_parent · 2013-01-28T07:21:11+00:00

How did this PUA stuff not get downvoted on Askreddit?

derGraf_ · 2013-01-28T08:48:11+00:00

Make yourself scarce. PEOPLE, NOT WOMEN, WANT THINGS THEY CAN'T HAVE. That's always been ingrained in human.

Edit: spelling

wvwvwvwvwvwvwvwvwvwv · 2013-01-28T09:33:23+00:00

People want things other people want.

You learn this stuff when you're a child, it isn't rocket science.

ImMakingPancakes · 2013-01-28T16:38:14+00:00

Love it. Now how about some "actionable intelligence": how about a list of things I should get used to doing/saying that would convey that other women want me?!

And by the way I'm assuming that it's not good to just go around bragging about how many beautiful women (real or immaginary) adore and hang out with me.

So from the post it was clear what not to do. Don't

put her on a pedestal
whine about other women
be needy, clingy and passive-aggressive

The generally good things to do are:

be confident
be confident
be confident

Now, here's what I thought might be some of the specific little subtle things we can do when we are interacting with a target girl to show that other women want us:

be conservative with how you spend your time: don't adapt your schedule to hers all the time and don't spend hours chatting with her on the phone or messaging. (it helps if you have several friend circles I guess)
talk about recent good times you had with friends/girls. Or in general talk about your other female friends
make it a point to text or call other females (not to the point of being rude, just to make it clear that you have other things going on)
post a lot on facebook (photos and comments) with other girls
talk and interact with ALL females in your environment

Anything else people want to add?

surfinfan21 · 2013-01-28T12:17:13+00:00

I'm just going to wait for my 30’s. This is ridiculous. Of course woman want what they can't have. Guys are the same ways. That's why we fawn over them because we lost the first time. No guy goes up to a random girl at the bar and does this. It's usually after you are friend zoned or something as a last ditch effort to try and win her after.

puntingbaxter · 2013-01-28T19:55:29+00:00

Chris Rock said this, but in a much funnier succinct way...

skymanj · 2013-01-28T04:43:03+00:00

I have never been able to figure out how to make this work for me. I don't think your actions can outweigh your physical appearance anymore than a woman's can for a man.

puaCurveBall · 2013-01-28T14:05:07+00:00

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Title	Read this really cool comment by mothman83 in AskReddit that succinctly sums up this subreddit: WOMEN WANT MEN OTHER WOMEN WANT
Author	aristideau
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Date	January 28, 2013 2:39 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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