It’s been a crazy year ranging from first ONS success, OLD booty calls, bar pickups, girlfriends, sex friends, heartbreak and breaking hearts, huge rejections, burnout, and taking breaks. Some reflections through all this going into the fall:

-Be more selective, got for hotter but also make her qualify herself and be ready to drop a set if she don’t have a good personality. -Pay attention to red flags. Chicks with 4 kids and 3 baby daddies prolly a red flag, and she ain’t worth pursuing. -Get tested for STDs more regularly. -Is impossible to avoid attachment. Sometimes they will like you more, and visa versa. Manage by showing that you like her slightly less than she likes you to keep her interest. Be truly unattached to outcome. Even so, some level of heartache is part of the game. -Pickup, dating, and girlfriends are expensive Af! Be targeted with how you spend your time. Rather than always going to bars and blowing cash on drinks, do more day game cofeee ice cream instadates to the pull. Don’t let pickup put you in the hole financially cuz it is addicting. -Continual learning and resilience. Even after a streak of success, all of a sudden a huge rejection smacks you upside the head that makes you question your game. Happened to me on a date last night! Look for lessons learned from each rejection and remember you are good enough when you are bringing the heat! Keep reading and studying too. -Take breaks. Don’t need to go out every weekends. Girls are like waves in the ocean. They keep coming. Give yourself some time for you. Make yourself a steak and watch a movie. Celebrate time with yourself rather than think of it as this lonely time.