Me and HB 8 have had this sexual tension since my senior year of college. We always said we wanted to sleep with each other, but she had a bf. Fast forward a year and a half she texts me out of the blue, when we hadn't talked or seen each other for eight months. So we start hanging out and pick up where we left off. Within a week I get her to comply, let her make all the moves (still had a bf). First night she blue balls the shit out of me. Getting fully naked, making out, grinding up on me. Then she stops and says " I can't go any further, I'm sorry I feel guilty." I assure her that I understand, knowing that the next night I could close it. Let her sleep over, the hours laters after leaving she's asks "am I coming over tonight?" The answer was yes, we start smoking hookah and watch 40 year old virgin. Shortly into the movie she insists we go to my room. I turn on horrible bosses and we start cuddling. Then boom she gets butt naked, but insists on no sex. About 10 min into foreplay I gown down on her. A few minutes into munching on her pussy, she says "I think you should fuck me." So I did, was great. A year and a half of sexual tension built up into one night, I went savage on her. Next morning everything was good, nothing but smiles. We wake up around 11, walk her to her car. Check up on her later, trying to be gentlemen about the whole thing. The messages became very brief and the lack of excitement was showing. We setup dinner and she cancels. So i am leaving the ball in her court now. But it dawned on me. My own bread and butter of diffusing the after math of a one night stand was being used, a taste of my own medicine. And I'm not gonna lie it doesn't feel too great. It has made me rethink my logic of simply sleeping with a sensitive woman and its subsequent consequences on their emotions. This doesn't mean I'll stop haha But it is interesting to experience it from the other side of the fence, but at least I got my swerve on too. Props to her 😏