Share some seduction gems and tricks from this past month!

WorkSafeJohn · 2011-04-11T20:20:27+00:00

Kind of odd advice, but I discovered this the other day. If you've got some gay friends or just want a story, hit up a gay bar. As long as you're fine with some guys eye fucking you and grabbing your ass, it's really just like any other place.

Now, there's less girls, obviously, but the ones there will be easier to hit on, simply because their defenses are down. Even if they sense you're straight and hitting on them, they won't mind as much, because they're not busy deflecting an endless barrage of guys.

I was only at one for about an hour last week, and wasn't really trying to hit on girls (I was meeting a friend), but I did at least get one girls number.

dark180 · 2011-04-11T18:40:19+00:00

i tried the second one but instead of saying using my lips i said I can kiss you without you feeling it.

Eun33k · 2011-04-12T00:54:34+00:00

Peacocking works wonders and I found a brilliant tactic by accident. Two Friday's ago I wore a button down shirt, jeans, and a shiny, skinny black tie to a party that my friend was having. I had girls left and right comment about my tie and it was an excellent conversation starter. I used the tie to peacock intentionally as it had worked in the past I knew I'd get a good reaction.

Now this past weekend, I showed up to the same friends house in my work outfit (khaki's, collared work shirt, name tag) as well as a flat-brimmed hat. Almost every girl I approached immediately looked at my nametag, read my name aloud, and asked why I was wearing it. I explained that I had just gotten off work and came straight to the party from there. Of course then they started asking about where I work, what I do, if my work attire included the hat I was wearing etc. I didn't think about it then but I realized the nametag was the perfect peacocking tool. By the end of the night almost everyone knew my name, or at least knew me as the guy with the nametag and the fact that I had a job showed higher value immediately. I've even thought about going into the field with my nametag, but in party attire. It would be so easy to make up job titles and just have fun with it throughout the night. I might provide an FR with this tactic if I have the opportunity to try out this weekend

puaCurveBall · 2011-04-11T20:45:34+00:00

Most of my recent gems/realizations have been logistical for closing:

Powering through any last minute request(before bounce) like extra shots, saying goodbye to friends, etc. Too much can go wrong when their buying temp is up and their friends get involved. As soon as you think you can bounce, do so.
If late, don't agree to stop by another bar or friend's place even for a little bit with the intention of bouncing after 10min. Always get them to final location directly as the wrong spot can kill vibe or introduce further logistical problems.
Giving myself permission to move from indirect individual language to direct mutual-knowledge language if former isn't working. At one point, even after just getting shot down for the seemingly direct "Let's go back to my place and party", when I moved the speech sexual "I want to do xxx to you" it resulted in a close. Same thing with vocalizing interest, my normal frame is "I don't care either way" but I realize now I could have closed more sets if I'd be more direct in "I really want you/xxx". Key is knowing when to do it.
Going for kiss / makeout extremely early(in my view). My thinking on this has changed, and now I'd rather get rejected and get through the set 2x-3x sooner so I can go to next.

I also want to get better at recognizing and sniping girls with high buying temp. I have the right attitude but need to know when to do it and how to defuse the guy who is watching his girl get taken.

Basically about a month ago I realized that while highly sexual privately, I wasn't giving enough of the vibe off during attraction/comfort even if the talk was sexual. So I've spent the last month going completely direct and hyper-sexual for ONS, in order to get more comfortable using it when trying for relationships with HQ girls. Had great results and after another month of getting that part handled I'll back off ONS and go for relationships.

edit: forgot to mention one gem I'm still trying to work in is testing the Shock/Awe technique of "Stop being so hot, you are making me lose control" frame. I don't think it is something I want to do longterm, but want to get it down so I can understand it.

07SS · 2011-04-11T23:14:54+00:00

Not trying to promote myself here, but I really think this is a good quote:

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gfv75/those_who_wait_until_everything_is_perfect_rarely/

Rlight · 2011-04-12T07:11:00+00:00

Yay the shot one was mine! If you guys have any questions on it let me know (i've extensively field tested it)

MrFrillows · 2011-04-11T22:49:03+00:00

I have to admit, the hair comment is just as lame as saying "I'm totally going to paint your nails during this movie"

2011-04-12T07:26:22+00:00

The shot's magic trick is amazing

dark180 · 2011-04-13T13:51:59+00:00

I just remembered one , one of my buddies taught me this, Its pretty much a palm reading bit with a twist. You might have to read a bit about palm reading so you know some of the common lines (love, life, etc.) Then after having gone with the bs for a while act surprised go "OMG do you know what this line stands for?!?!!?" and she will act interested and ask what it is. and then tell her " this one means you are gullible". I have field tested this and i have always gotten a good reaction from it.

mofosstolemyusername · 2011-04-11T18:11:05+00:00

If I tried that, she'd probably cry rape.

wahooyahoo · 2011-04-11T19:46:02+00:00

Thanks for this! Will definitely try it out.

skystirling · 2011-04-13T23:19:03+00:00

Great retort to a potential shit test (Her: You're Hot.) that is easily dealt with. Cocky-funny springs to mind; this oozes playful confidence that subtly demands a response from her

"Oh I know how this works, you sweet talk me, maybe buy me a couple of drinks, next thing you know you're taking me to your place to "look at your cats"? Well it won't work!"

Source - HB says "You're sexy", you say ....?

Simple and natural way of escalating kino when watching films with her. I think we all know this one now B]

Things begin to escalate. I use my signature line: "I have a really bad habit when I watch movies..." Her: "Omg lol wut?" Me: "I'm going to end up playing with your hair."

Source - HB10 is chasing me...or something.

Nice little tip to at the early stages of closing. Remember pacing is essential; think Gebrselassie, not Bolt.

I lean over, place a hand on her waist/stomach and use the other one to gently lift up her chin and kiss her. Guys, Do This! Its golden and it always gives them an extra boost of being turned on right before you kiss them.

Source - A girl at work gave IOIs... I capitalized like a boss (+ deep details & lessons!)

Edited for clarity - still trying to get the hang of Reddit formatting

Title	Share some seduction gems and tricks from this past month!
Author	taraka
Upvotes	31
Comments	41
Date	April 11, 2011 5:24 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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