Should I let her know I don’t want a second date?

Financial_County_710 · 2022-05-29T06:35:21+00:00

Just man up and explain the situation. Tell her you enjoyed her company, but you just didn’t feel the spark you were looking for… then ghost her.

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-29T06:39:19+00:00

I wouldn’t ghost, just in general its shitty imo. Man up and tell her directly whats up. Regardless to me its a better approach to be direct, no matter the outcome, unless she knows where you live and your car, then 🤷🏽‍♂️

incognito3107 · 2022-05-29T08:23:45+00:00

Ghosting is a pussy move, you should be clear about your interest. Sincerity and politeness goes a long way in any relations.

nopenotmedude · 2022-05-29T07:01:21+00:00

Ghosting is the shittiest move

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-29T06:59:56+00:00

No, that’s not cool. Don’t be rude or inconsiderate, it’s bad karma and that’s not the way you would want a woman to treat you. Just tell her straight up that although you had a good time, you don’t think you’re a good match.

MrValentine___ · 2022-05-29T08:13:34+00:00

Dont ghost. This is the time to increase your social network.

If you ghost her or reject her in a rude manner ,than this will negetively impact your social reputation and hence you will score less women in the future.

Instead , friendzone her. Keep the vibe light and flirty but let her know you are not intrested in her. Opens up opportunity to meet new women through her friends.

Unhappy_Childhood535 · 2022-05-29T08:31:29+00:00

Just man up and tell her you didn't feel it with her, call it a day after that and don't message her anymore.

insane__knight · 2022-05-29T08:12:04+00:00

Don't ghost people. It's cowardly and makes you look like a fucking twat. Finally gow a set of balls and tell them you're not interested.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-29T12:06:01+00:00

Just don't propose one and let the conversation die out naturally. If she's asking you for one, then say you can't and she'll get the message eventually.

jskak424 · 2022-05-30T00:05:52+00:00

After a first date, there’s no moral necessity to say anything. You hung out and didn’t feel anything, no problem. If you slept together that’s a different story. If that’s the case then you absolutely should not ghost.

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2022-05-29T09:13:38+00:00

Grow up.

Communicate.

Ghosting is fucking pathetic.

atomant88 · 2022-05-29T09:40:43+00:00

unless you have some specific reason to ghost then its better to send a message

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-29T18:31:59+00:00

I hate rude behavior.

Ghosting is for immature children. Man up and just be polite and say you really weren’t feeling it and you wish her luck.

Title	Should I let her know I don’t want a second date?
Author	irreversiblethunder
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	May 29, 2022 6:33 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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