A quick comment on a recurring problem I’m seeing in the posts here:

Stop getting ahead of yourself. Reel yourself in. Manage your expectations. Keep your feet on the ground.

I read so many posts where you guys are obsessing over women before you even go on a date with them. I’ve read of two different guys on here who checked the woman’s snap location to see if she was “actually busy” or just ignoring them.

Guys. Stop. It’s creepy, your desperation shows, and that’s why they’re losing interest before you even go on a date.

If she flirts with you, cool, you two have a flirty relationship. THATS IT. Don’t let your mind wander further, analyzing every little thing she said, looking for hidden clues etc. You have to stop yourself when you catch your mind going down this road.

Nothing is ever 100% sure. You don’t know she’s actually going to meet with you until you’re literally both at the coffee shop together.

Be ready for things to fall through, and be chill about it when it does. When women realize you’re not putting them on a pedestal, and you’re not going to scrutinize their every action, they relax and they get comfortable with you.

When youre all giddy and hearing wedding bells before you two even meet, you make her feel uncomfortable, and awkward. She wants to find the cleanest and quickest exit without hurting your feelings. Probably by ghosting you.

My two cents.