There’s so many posts in here that follow the script of “Do women like short men?” Or “Is living with your parents a dealbreaker?” Or “Should I lose weight before I start approaching”. You get the idea.

We all have our perceived handicaps. Whether its inexperience, lack of funds, acne issues, chronic bad breath, crappy apartment, divorce, you name it. There is ALWAYS going to be something to feel insecure about. It’s not about checking off a list of requirements, it’s about working with what you got. Being resourceful, having pride and dignity despite whatever you perceive yourself to be lacking.

Your situation might be tough. It might be tougher than most peoples even, but nothing is impossible, and even if you think it’s impossible it still doesn’t hurt to try. The process can suck, immensely, but if you can stick with it and not give up, you will grow. You’ll get experience, however small it may seem, and the experiences will keep accumulating and you’ll have grit.

Lack of confidence often stems from lack of experience, which can lead into a vicious cycle. So, if you’re new, forget confidence, just get the experience first.

But, above all else. TRY. Stop waiting for the perfect storm, just try, and try consistently. If you don’t try, theres nothing anybody can do for you. That’s all, I hope this motivated some of you.