Sunday Reflection Thread: What did you learn this weekend?

sithyiscool · 2012-03-04T22:01:58+00:00

I rediscovered how important it is to talk to everyone in a group, including the guys. Talking to some of the dudes in the group helped me warm up, enter state easier, and meet some cool people!

rmbarnes · 2012-03-04T22:48:15+00:00

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2012-03-05T00:29:39+00:00

I start fucking up around girls that I like because I care too much. It's a shitty catch-22. I start caring about them because I start considering them a "quality girl". I dislike that I have to not care about a girl until the relationship is more solidified. Despite my moniker, I enjoy playing the "nice guy with a wild side" when it comes to legitimate relationships.

Fucking feelings, man!

Seville009 · 2012-03-05T00:06:04+00:00

That even when I'm shitfaced drunk, I can finger a girl in the parking lot of the wedding reception while she yells at her boyfriend to go back inside..........yeah, this happened last night. And what did he do? He went back inside like a good little boy. Girls want adventure, not lame asses that they have dominion over. I mean I've kind of always knew this but last night has officially solidified the concept in my head.

thr_pkc · 2012-03-05T03:11:30+00:00

Don't get one-itis. Long story short, opened a set of two girls, hit it off fairly well, said I'd talk to them later in the night. Starting talking with this other girl, got close/kino and # close.

Never ended up going back to the original two set even though they both looked kind of lonely (friends wanted to leave early). Girl hasn't texted me back (2 texts, one yesterday, one today). If I went back to that set I could have gotten two more numbers, maybe more, and one of those girls may have texted me back.

TL;DR Don't get one-itis.

sirscribblez87 · 2012-03-05T02:47:18+00:00

Be comfortable with yourself/who you are, and fucking know what you want. I got to live out one of my little fantasies this weekend

the_brick_attack · 2012-03-04T22:23:38+00:00

I learned that if you're in a small town for a year, just have fun. The one-itis trap is easy to fall into. I'm on the verge of the old me that would have fallen into it already, but I learned I don't have to. Huge step for me!

2012-03-05T03:52:40+00:00

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carrotplanter · 2012-03-05T06:52:10+00:00

The importance of a genuine smile.

I haven't been posting many field reports but I have been practicing game, still. And I've learned that most people, especially girls, will respond positively if you yourself already have a positive vibe coming off you. You can show this easily by appearing to be in a relaxed, happy state. And the easiest way to communicate this is with a smile. It has improved my success in approaching by a great percentage.

derpinstein2 · 2012-03-05T09:23:41+00:00

I started in the gym 5 weeks ago doing 30-40 mins of weight lifting 3-4 days a week. On Friday night I pulled the hottest women of my life, a women that's been on the edge of my social circle for 2 years whom I never really even spoke much too before. Started out by simple negging and checking out her new french nails as an excuse for kino... By the time we got back to a party later she was practically sitting on my knee before we made an excuse to share a taxi home ;)
Lesson learned: Be more adventurous and stop caring if you succeed or not + hit the gym its made a massive difference to me already in only 6 weeks and it is actually enjoyable. Note i'm 33 and have never been to the gym before.

Tonipwnz · 2012-03-05T01:44:11+00:00

I could've K-closed with an engaged girl this weekend. Had very good kino, pretty cool conversation, and 100% eye contact the whole time. She was gettin ready to leave so I just #-closed her instead.

Discovered how to read IOI's a little more clearly and I need to learn how to open up more sets/be more social with all the people at parties

Title	Sunday Reflection Thread: What did you learn this weekend?
Author	sithyiscool
Upvotes	12
Comments	14
Date	March 4, 2012 9:59 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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