I just made my first approach and made myself look retarded and I don't even care lmao. I hope this resonates with anyone who hasn't done any approaches yet

Tbh, 99% of us will not have a successful first approach. Here's the thing - don't care if you stutter, don't know what to say, freeze up, whatever. The dopamine rush and immediate feeling of freedom you get after is 1000x more powerful than any level of embarrassment you'll feel.

All of a sudden it's like an entire new world is unlocked. You're now able to actually talk to girls you see around. You don't have to hope you get a lucky match on a dating app where she doesn't end up responding to you anyways.

Before this, you will see a ton of hot girls walking around everywhere but it's almost as if they're locked characters, like the black shadow characters in a video game. After you make your first approach, your mind allows them to be unlocked. It's crazy