I'm 23 M.

I was doing the math and realized I've had hinge for about 45 days and have matched with 90 girls, so about 2 per day.

But most of my matches end with either no response at all after I say something, or like one or two messages and then no response. I've got the number a decent amount but even that usually ends up fizzling out because of scheduling or whatever. I've only met up with one girl so far

I feel like I might be trying too hard when messaging or something. I've had it a few times where someone "likes" me, reaches out, but is almost like self-sabotaging by being intentionally and over the top dry to try to get me to chase them. I don't get it