The main difference between advanced guys and beginners….

Frequent-Ambition636 · 2026-07-05T05:30:06+00:00

A high interest girl makes you confident, which makes her more interested. Don't even bother with low interest girls, the passive rejection and disinterest ruins your confidence and cascades over to future interactions with other girls.

jackthehat6 · 2026-07-05T09:02:11+00:00

Only a fool would try to game a girl who clearly isn' interested lol. It's literally never ever gonna happen. You can't force attraction. I think everyone needs to watch infield footage of the pros who dedicate their lives too it. If 'they' can't do it (and the clearly can't) then neither can a random redittor lol (or the 'coaches' in this thread who either have no infeild or do have infield that proves my point lol)

game is always played on the yes girls

becomesharp · 2026-07-05T05:52:12+00:00

That's not advanced. That's a guy who is running around looking for women who like him. Nothing inherently wrong with that strategy, but it doesnt mean he's advanced. Quite the opposite in most cases.

That's like saying an advanced martial artist is a guy who only tries to spar with people worse than him or smaller than him, and quits sparring as soon as he realizes his opponent is either bigger or better.

FindingNewLeaf · 2026-07-05T12:08:04+00:00

That depends entirely on your definition of "advanced".

Personally I'd call your description "intermediary".

Advanced would be someone that is now skilled in turning yellows into greens.

That doesn't mean it's all he does, it means that if he sees someone that he wants to, he could.

andreidanilo · 2026-07-05T13:04:26+00:00

true, 99% of the time its pointless to try and change a low interest girl, when she likes you she will make everything easier and not throw dry answers and resistance for no reason. its like a tennis game, she gotta return the serve otherwise u cant play

Famous-Individual364 · 2026-07-05T08:42:19+00:00

If a woman tells you no, you don't touch her or kiss her.... that's harrassment.

If a woman isn't showing compliance, she is indirectly telling you no, she doesn't want to go down that road with you. She isn't completely rejecting you yet, but she is cautious. You don't plow through non-compliance, but the more you try to go around it, the more you appear as a guy without options.

Like you are hanging out with a woman you like, the interaction is doing great, you touch, you flirt, you get horny. You ask her if she wants to go to your place, and she says no. You already showed you want to take it to the next level and have sex, she told you no. Why would you stay? In an ideal world you should have a hot FWB you can chat up even at 3am and you get laid and a fun interaction. So the best course of action would be wrap up the date, make sure she knows you enjoyed her company and if you are looking for something more, tell her you would like to have another date. Then go to that FWB.

Of course a vast majority of men, me included, don't have this kind of freedom most of the time. I had once, and it changed how I interact with women nowadays. But it's all about behaviors.

epimpstyle · 2026-07-05T09:46:00+00:00

You see a lot of differences, but I say it's just the level of social skills and having the ability to read a person to know how far you can push it, an advanced guy is someone who knows more jokes or funny stories, he is more sociable, more open and friendlier... whereas a beginner struggles with those exact things.

Nobody is truly a beginner; everyone is somewhere in the middle. There are guys who just need an opener (an excuse to talk to her), while other guys just need a push from behind (encouragement from their friends) ...

Seduction is like catching a fly. If you were to read a book on how to catch a fly, it would be hundreds of pages long, and there’d be a ton of videos about it. But in reality, it's way simpler than people make it out to be... However, there will always be fly-catching coaches explaining how difficult it is because that’s how they make a living., so they need to push as much misinformation as possible just to make it look complicated.

the guy who’s advanced doesn’t waste a lot of time with women

That's nonsense because anyone can get lucky. In fact, if you go to certain spots in town where a specific type of girl hangs out, you just have to show up, you don't need any "game".

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-07-05T07:14:59+00:00

A woman's compliance is simply more fun than her beauty. Took me some time to realize that.

Title	The main difference between advanced guys and beginners….
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Date	July 5, 2026 4:55 AM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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