The Only Remaining Difficult Thing For Me: Moving Target

PyouA · 2012-02-08T04:21:42+00:00

In my experience the most important thing you can do here is the "I only have a minute" or "do you have a couple of seconds?" preamble. When I forget to use a line like that, I invariably get "I'm sorry I'm really in a hurry" from the girl. Other than that just move quickly. Clearly you aren't likely to take the girl home right then and there - so just be a gentleman and traverse from the opening comment to laughing and playful chat to getting her number ASAP.

Out of a coffee shop I'll usually do something like, "Excuse me, do you have a few seconds (don't let her answer, keep going), I'm supposed to get a coffee for my boss that is a pumpkin something (or be real smooth and glance at what is written on hers and ask for that) and I really don't want to get it wrong - you don't know what it is called do you? It's like a seasonal thing I think..." If you smile and act nice usually you will get a decent response, and if you can keep the interaction going for a few minutes, a number (or as is common in these scenarios, an email or facebook request) - sometimes the girl will be in a hurry though and just blow you off, just got to roll with that I guess. I've thought about trying to walk with her for a bit, but I think that comes on as too strong.

My experience is in NYC, I'm assuming a smaller city might be more laid back and easier to just make small talk...but here everyone is always in a real fucking hurry to get somewhere.

KPB724 · 2012-02-08T05:40:24+00:00

Hi, excuse me.... Hold up a second.. Also use body rocking to imply that you too are about to leave at any second, thus showing her you won't take too much of her time.

Title	The Only Remaining Difficult Thing For Me: Moving Target
Author	30vanquish
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	February 8, 2012 2:13 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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